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I'm too good for women.

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I'm too good for women. I'm confident, not desperate, I can actually hold a conversation and I have more balls than many other men. Yet, I go up to women and if when things seem well, I'm rejected. This smart, confident, non desperate, good conversationalist, gets rejected by women. WTF women?

I'm sort of getting this feeling that I'm too good for women. Unlike a lot of guys, I actually LIKE myself and am not that insecure. Nor am I desperate, because if a woman rejects me, I just go up to the next one. It's no big deal to me. WTF women? You should be HAPPY a dude as confident and intelligent as me would even give your ho ass 5 seconds.

After that last chick I approached, I've just had it. I'm tired of getting rejected for actually LIKING myself and actually giving a crap about her. I like women, a lot; of course, I'm a man. But they're not something I can't live without. That in addition with porn, is enough to be happy without women.

It just seems women my age just don't like, good, confident, intelligent men. Meanwhile, they'll go for a jerk or a thug, who uses and abuses them, in a second. WTF women? I honestly feel I'm just too good for these ho's and that THEY are the one's truly missing out. What am I missing out on? Probably a boring chick with no personality, who's materialistic. What's she missing out? A guy who cares for her, who will protect her and cherish her if she deserved it.

But even without women, I'm that same cool confident guy. What she she's is the REAL, GENUINE me, unlike with other dudes. But yeah, I might start focusing on other things that are more important than getting laid. You know like, SCHOOL, music, programming; you know, my passions. I swear this is where I draw the line.

Meanwhile, the guys who mistreat them, abuse them and leave her with 5 kids; gets the girl. What a pathetic society we live in.

I can now understand why some men become jerks.

Goodbye women. There's no ElStud in your future.

This will be my final thread on the subject. I'm done. Finished.
 

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FairShake said:
What do your friends say about your problems?
I don't see it as a "problem" per se. I see it as doing something that'll remove a lot of stress from my life. Why focus on "things" that don't want to be treated right? Why focus on "things" that don't want a good guy? It's a waste of my time. Sh*t, I'm happy, girls or no girls. And I'll continue to be happy without girls. If I even think about approaching I'm gonna tell myself it's just not worth it.

Girls aint the only thing in my life. I got my education, my music, my skills and talents, I'm very well off without girls. And without girls, I can concentrate more on those things. Those ho's should be happy to have a guy like me, but whatever. I'm done.
 

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Exactly how much have you gone out and how many have you approached?

I can tell that your mentality is somewhat screwed up atleast. You're doing something terribly wrong.

And by the way, your post does actually, in fact, reek of desperation.

I'd cut the porn and mb for atleast 30 days, and then I'd see how I felt about getting chicks. Porn is some ****ed up ****.
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
Exactly how much have you gone out and how many have you approached?

I can tell that your mentality is somewhat screwed up atleast. You're doing something terribly wrong.

And by the way, your post does actually, in fact, reek of desperation.

I'd cut the porn and mb for atleast 30 days, and then I'd see how I felt about getting chicks. Porn is some ****ed up ****.
Well whatever, I'm done. Think what you want. I barely ever approach chicks and when I do, it's one I find attractive. If you think that's desperation fine.

Look, it's like this, real girls don't give me sh*t, so I watch porn. Why shouldn't I? It's not like I have a girlfriend or anything.

If anything, porn helps me get my mind OFF chicks, so that I can focus on other things.

But yeah, I can't help it, my body has natural urges that have to be met.

But even when I'm at home, I'm barely thinking about girls. So if you think that's desperate, fine.

If I was REALLY desperate, I'd settle for any random chick.

It's really a feeling like, I'm confident, nice, I respect you and I haven't gotten laid? F*ck that sh*t. I'm done. They don't deserve a guy like me.
 

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ElStud said:
If I was REALLY desperate, I'd settle for any random chick.
My 2 cents: I want you to "settle" for some random chick. Just once. Game her, bang her, and that's it. Just. Do. It. It will open up your eyes to a lot of things, and will increase your game with the girls that "matter" more than you can even fathom. Don't give me some stupid holier-than-thou crap about how they don't meet your standards. Just do it, and then come back to us and tell us what you learned.

Live and learn, my friend.

And if you need motivation, don't watch porn or jerk off for a week or two and then you'll really wanna do it ;)
 

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ARrocket said:
My 2 cents: I want you to "settle" for some random chick. Just once. Game her, bang her, and that's it. Just. Do. It. It will open up your eyes to a lot of things, and will increase your game with the girls that "matter" more than you can even fathom. Don't give me some stupid holier-than-thou crap about how they don't meet your standards. Just do it, and then come back to us and tell us what you learned.

Live and learn, my friend.
I probably could but I'd have to completely change my personality. But what the f*ck, girls don't deserve the real me anyway. So I might try that.

Haha, I bet my game would increase 100% if I went up there and said "Hey, sl*t, give me your number, ho".

You might think I'm joking, but that's the kind of guys they go for.
 

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ElStud said:
I probably could but I'd have to completely change my personality. But what the f*ck, girls don't deserve the real me anyway. So I might try that.

Haha, I bet my game would increase 100% if I went up there and said "Hey, sl*t, give me your number, ho".

You might think I'm joking, but that's the kind of guys they go for.
I'm sure it might. But you know what? Don't hypothesize, get out there and do it.

You might think I'm joking, but that's the best thing for you right now. Come back to me with the results. There's really no more to discuss until then.

Happy experimenting!
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
I'd cut the porn and mb for atleast 30 days, and then I'd see how I felt about getting chicks. Porn is some ****ed up ****.
This is a cute topic if you ask me. Things remain to be said however; I am very glad when people post their opinions on it. Thanks! :)

I for one am saving mine advice this time, because I don't know how to talk to this man anymore. And most important, I think I would say the same thing I said last time LOL. :D

You guys wanna know what is pretty awesome in this topic? Except for the fact of me posting on it, of course. :D It's stuff like this:"I like woman a lot". Ok ElStud, thanks for the info. And a little after:
"I honestly feel I'm just too good for these ho's". I laughed at these incongruences.

BTW, something else seems fishy to me in that last sentence, maybe someone can spot it too?

ElStud said:
I'm too good for women. I'm confident, not desperate, I can actually hold a conversation and I have more balls than many other men. Yet, I go up to women and if when things seem well, I'm rejected. This smart, confident, non desperate, good conversationalist, gets rejected by women. WTF women?
Something isn't right here. If you were confident, not desperate, smart and a good conversationalist girls would be all over you. Fact of life man.

This is what happened
I go approach and get rejected a million times. Therefore, I must be too good for woman.

I think more people would post if we saw a more open attitude and better titles... That one just screams attention to me, sorry.
 

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Groovy said:
This is a cute topic if you ask me. Things remain to be said however; I am very glad when people post their opinions on it. Thanks! :)

I for one am saving mine advice this time, because I don't know how to talk to this man anymore. And most important, I think I would say the same thing I said last time LOL. :D

You guys wanna know what is pretty awesome in this topic? Except for the fact of me posting on it, of course. :D It's stuff like this:"I like woman a lot". Ok ElStud, thanks for the info. And a little after:
"I honestly feel I'm just too good for these ho's". I laughed at these incongruences.

BTW, something else seems fishy to me in that last sentence, maybe someone can spot it too?


Something isn't right here. If you were confident, not desperate, smart and a good conversationalist girls would be all over you. Fact of life man.

This is what happened
I go approach and get rejected a million times. Therefore, I must be too good for woman.

I think more people would post if we saw a more open attitude and better titles... That one just screams attention to me, sorry.
What you think is what you think bud. I know who I am and I'm not here to defend myself.

Hehe, I bet you think you're so cool acting like you know people on the internet, though.
 

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I'm a big fan of your trolling I really am. BUT like you said


"These hos dont deserve the real me anyway."

In this case, since they take ElStud for granted, take away ElStud and they will see how much they miss him. Just use a different approach than you normally would, and see how it goes.
 

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Gray The Prince said:
I'm a big fan of your trolling I really am. BUT like you said


"These hos dont deserve the real me anyway."

In this case, since they take ElStud for granted, take away ElStud and they will see how much they miss him. Just use a different approach than you normally would, and see how it goes.
Sigh. The day I give a damn about some random guy on the internet thinking I'm a troll... Remind me to kill myself. :)

Really, Mr. Less than 99 post, do you get like an erection labeling people trolls?

I'm sure you're just derailing because you know any advice you give would suck.
 

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ElStud said:
Sigh. The day I give a damn about some random guy on the internet thinking I'm a troll... Remind me to kill myself. :)

Really, Mr. Less than 99 post, do you get like an erection labeling people trolls?

I'm sure you're just derailing because you know any advice you give would suck.
you're the typing and babbling proof that quantity is not quality.
you make sooo many approaches, you have tonnnnns of confidence, tonnnns of posts, you're still apparently mentally retarded...
 

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this OP kind of makes me LOL, but in a sad clown type of way. He's not confident. he's needy. What probably kills him is how his reality is crushed by the results of his labors - his bad game. Sorry buddy, you suck at it. Its not the end of the world. You aren't too good for women, that is for sure. Women are too good for you. Likewise, any advice is too good for you since you won't even use it very well.

One more dud into the abyss. More women for the rest of us! HOORAH!
 

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BBbardot said:
ok you really must be retarded by now.

We may disagree a lot of the time, but this is one thing we can both agree on!!! :rockon:
 
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I read all of your threads, but I'm finally going to comment...

This is repeating what everyone else is saying to you, but whatever...wasting of 30 seconds of energy isn't really going to amount to much on a work break.

I used to be just like you, man. I had no self-esteem and didn't get laid in high school (didn't get any until I was around 20) and had on-and-off dry spells after that. My ego exploded after I graduated, which usually happens when you have an inferiority complex. I knew down deep that women didn't like me for a reason, but I just brushed it off and never learned anything the more and more I tried to get laid.

About a year ago it dawned on me -- if you're not dating anybody and having no success with girls, you're probably the problem. Take a long, hard look at yourself, and look at others -- ask yourself what about you is so unattractive, and what you can do to change it.

You're 20, man, you've got time.
 

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synergy1 said:
this OP kind of makes me LOL, but in a sad clown type of way. He's not confident. he's needy. What probably kills him is how his reality is crushed by the results of his labors - his bad game. Sorry buddy, you suck at it. Its not the end of the world. You aren't too good for women, that is for sure. Women are too good for you. Likewise, any advice is too good for you since you won't even use it very well.

One more dud into the abyss. More women for the rest of us! HOORAH!
Yes, a boring chick with no personality is better than me. A chick who can't appreciate a good confident guy, who'll take care of her is better than me. Sorry bud, but that ain't so so. No one is better than me, in my eyes. It's amazing how a couple losers on the internet seem to know me so well.

Wouldn't be surprised if a number of you never talked to girls in your lives. A lot of you guys are fakers for sure. That's why you get such a rise out of bashing someone who's actually talked to girls before.

Hehe, you people seem to know me better than I know myself :).

Seriously though, get off your high horse ****head.

This board is pure entertainment. I love how you guys seem to "know" me and "know who I am" better than I DO, when you haven't met me. Pure entertainment, yes, but you've lost any chance of being taken seriously.

How you seem to know I'm "needy" and "Not confident" based off nothing.

Please you idiot, I can probably go up to more sets than you could dream of.

I imagine you're the "talk a lot of **** type" but then when you get in field you freeze up.
 

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You remind me of my retarded cousin who has no success with women and the way you talk in your posts is the same way he does. And yall are the same age. My cousin also doesn't take advice from me or anybody else who tries to help him.

Tim is that you? LOL
 
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