Ok so one day over this summer I decide I’m sick and tired of being a shy guy. I’m so shy that I never really talked to any girls in high school therefore not having any friends that were girls or a girlfriend. Basically I don’t want to let it hold me back like it has in the past. So I decide I want to get over it and google something about being shy and stuff and then I stumble onto this site and I start to read some tips. Eventually I read some of the stuff in the dj bible and all of wms. I find out I’m a big time afc and how being a nice guy isn’t something to be proud of like I thought it was and get sidetracked forgetting the reason I found this site well this wouldn’t last for long.
So I see something called boot camp I read about it and find this is a great way to try out these new things I’ve learned as well as get over my shyness. I enter week one thinking it would be easy to do 50 hi’s with eye contact and a smile but turns out for me it couldn’t be farther from the truth since the only time I was able to do it was when I sent about 7 resumes to different stores. When I tried again at another mall all my confidence and motivation was gone and I was losing the battle against my shyness so I gave one resume to one store when I had tons more in my hand, threw them out and sort of lied (since I did apply to one place just not multiple places lol) to my family and friends when they asked me if I applied for the jobs at the mall. So anyone got any tips for helping me getting over my shyness, I want to hopefully get over it by the end of the summer so I can actually make new friends at college which I wasn’t really able to do in my first year, I mean I did talk to some people but they were my like acquaintances in class and in some classes I didn’t talk to anyone which sucked and basically all I talk to is a couple of my friends from high school. Any tips for helping me get over my shyness would be appreciated thanks.
So I see something called boot camp I read about it and find this is a great way to try out these new things I’ve learned as well as get over my shyness. I enter week one thinking it would be easy to do 50 hi’s with eye contact and a smile but turns out for me it couldn’t be farther from the truth since the only time I was able to do it was when I sent about 7 resumes to different stores. When I tried again at another mall all my confidence and motivation was gone and I was losing the battle against my shyness so I gave one resume to one store when I had tons more in my hand, threw them out and sort of lied (since I did apply to one place just not multiple places lol) to my family and friends when they asked me if I applied for the jobs at the mall. So anyone got any tips for helping me getting over my shyness, I want to hopefully get over it by the end of the summer so I can actually make new friends at college which I wasn’t really able to do in my first year, I mean I did talk to some people but they were my like acquaintances in class and in some classes I didn’t talk to anyone which sucked and basically all I talk to is a couple of my friends from high school. Any tips for helping me get over my shyness would be appreciated thanks.