So many guys, especially the younger ones, are all caught up in this so-called "power" struggle. Read some posts, and see what comes up...
"If I call her, I give away the power"
"If she knows I'm interested, she has the power"
"If I pay for her on a date, she has the power"
etc, etc, etc.
This concept of "power" is ridiculous...it has nothing to do with being a DJ. It has EVERYTHING to do with playing immature high school mind games. Being a DJ is about one thing, and one thing only...enjoying yourself. When you're enjoying yourself, you're confident. When you're enjoying yourself, you don't care what other people think. When you're enjoying yourself, it doesn't matter if the HB you're eyeing doesn't like you, because it's not about HER. It's about YOU. I'll say it again...being a DJ is about YOU. You're out to have fun...don't worry about making sure she's having a good time. When you're enjoying yourself, it "spills over". Think about it...when you walk into a party, and you don't know anyone, where do you head? To the group huddled together awkwardly over by the food? To the little cliques on the couch? Or to the group that's having a good time? EVERYONE'S attracted to someone who looks like they're having fun. Enjoy yourself, and have a good time, and you won't have to chase girls, they'll be drawn to YOU.
Don't worry about whether or not she likes you. It's not worth wasting time or mental energy over, because you're too busy enjoying life. Stop buying into this "keeping the power" crap, and go out, be a man, and live your life to the fullest. Laugh it up. Have a good time. Enjoy yourself, and everything else will fall into place.
"If I call her, I give away the power"
"If she knows I'm interested, she has the power"
"If I pay for her on a date, she has the power"
etc, etc, etc.
This concept of "power" is ridiculous...it has nothing to do with being a DJ. It has EVERYTHING to do with playing immature high school mind games. Being a DJ is about one thing, and one thing only...enjoying yourself. When you're enjoying yourself, you're confident. When you're enjoying yourself, you don't care what other people think. When you're enjoying yourself, it doesn't matter if the HB you're eyeing doesn't like you, because it's not about HER. It's about YOU. I'll say it again...being a DJ is about YOU. You're out to have fun...don't worry about making sure she's having a good time. When you're enjoying yourself, it "spills over". Think about it...when you walk into a party, and you don't know anyone, where do you head? To the group huddled together awkwardly over by the food? To the little cliques on the couch? Or to the group that's having a good time? EVERYONE'S attracted to someone who looks like they're having fun. Enjoy yourself, and have a good time, and you won't have to chase girls, they'll be drawn to YOU.
Don't worry about whether or not she likes you. It's not worth wasting time or mental energy over, because you're too busy enjoying life. Stop buying into this "keeping the power" crap, and go out, be a man, and live your life to the fullest. Laugh it up. Have a good time. Enjoy yourself, and everything else will fall into place.