This sucks. Just a little venting ahead.
I seem to be only attracting or getting attracted to the girls that are NOT compatible with me and are usually WAY too conservative for me.
I went from my ex-girlfriend (who after WAY too much patience I found out she was waiting for marriage for sex . . . I thought she was just waiting until she was 'ready').
Then I found another girl who, after some probing, was REALLY into me, but I found out she had been in a mental institution a few times (for attempted suicides in her 'fat' days), and just yesterday found out she was not only a virgin, but hasn't done ANYTHING with ANY guy, ever before. I want to avoid the attachment that WILL happen afterwards with this girl so I have to nix her. Not to mention she also wants to wait till marriage.
Then I found a girl who seemed really cool, funny, fun, so I went on a date with her. On the date I noticed she had a few rings. After asking her about it, I found out one was a "PURITY" ring which she plans wearing until marriage (Jesus Christ . . .)
Next one I found I didn't even bother going out with cause she kept inviting me to her church ensemble and she's a pastor's daughter.
The next one I found is a reverend's daughter (once again, not until marriage).
I'm not trying to find a QUICK lay, but I think sex is part of a relationship, and if I find someone I want to know that sex is at least ON THE TABLE during the relationship instead of locked away until some ****ing certificate is signed by a judge.
So overall, that's zero for six so far. And although some might have been good and fun to date, none of them would have been willing to take the relationship to a physical level and so I had to avoid them.
Man. I'm trying to figure out WTF it is about my image that I seem to be attracting a bunch of nun wannabes.
Alexi
I seem to be only attracting or getting attracted to the girls that are NOT compatible with me and are usually WAY too conservative for me.
I went from my ex-girlfriend (who after WAY too much patience I found out she was waiting for marriage for sex . . . I thought she was just waiting until she was 'ready').
Then I found another girl who, after some probing, was REALLY into me, but I found out she had been in a mental institution a few times (for attempted suicides in her 'fat' days), and just yesterday found out she was not only a virgin, but hasn't done ANYTHING with ANY guy, ever before. I want to avoid the attachment that WILL happen afterwards with this girl so I have to nix her. Not to mention she also wants to wait till marriage.
Then I found a girl who seemed really cool, funny, fun, so I went on a date with her. On the date I noticed she had a few rings. After asking her about it, I found out one was a "PURITY" ring which she plans wearing until marriage (Jesus Christ . . .)
Next one I found I didn't even bother going out with cause she kept inviting me to her church ensemble and she's a pastor's daughter.
The next one I found is a reverend's daughter (once again, not until marriage).
I'm not trying to find a QUICK lay, but I think sex is part of a relationship, and if I find someone I want to know that sex is at least ON THE TABLE during the relationship instead of locked away until some ****ing certificate is signed by a judge.
So overall, that's zero for six so far. And although some might have been good and fun to date, none of them would have been willing to take the relationship to a physical level and so I had to avoid them.
Man. I'm trying to figure out WTF it is about my image that I seem to be attracting a bunch of nun wannabes.
Alexi