[00:14] me: what do u think about guys who approach u randomly
[00:14] HB: it depends on how its done
[00:15] HB: ive only 'hung out' with one guy that ive met randomly
[00:15] HB: the rest are somehow connected to me
[00:15] me: if ure at the mall, is it alright if a guy approaches u
[00:15] HB: thats fine
[00:15] HB: although if he gives me his number i will never call
[00:15] me: yea we know that
[00:15] HB: and theres less than a 5050 ill give him my real number
[00:15] HB: lol
[00:16] HB: LMAO
[00:16] me: so how do u decide to give a real or fake number
[00:16] HB: on what the guy talks about when he appoaches me
[00:17] me: whats a good thing to talk about
[00:17] HB: and for me personally other than the height factor looks have very little to do with it
[00:17] HB: ummm anythings good
[00:17] HB: nothing overtly sexual
[00:17] me: im 6-3 im not too worried about height
[00:17] me: so just be normal right
[00:17] HB: and its too early for religion, abortion or politics
[00:17] me: if hes pretty normal and reasonably attractive he can get a #
[00:18] HB: maybe
[00:18] HB: too attractive is a negative as well
[00:18] HB: cuz then hes got chicks from every mall calling him
[00:18] me: every mall? how so
[00:18] HB: if hes hot/too smooth he obviously does than frequently
[00:18] HB: thats not cool
[00:19] me: ah i see
[00:19] me: so if hes slightly nervous its actually a good thing
[00:19] HB: there really needs to be a common interest as well
[00:19] HB: slightly nervous but not sweating like a pig either
[00:19] me: lol yea
[00:19] me: im thinking about doing an experiment
[00:19] HB: oh really
[00:20] me: yea
[00:20] HB: ?
[00:20] me: what is a good opening line
[00:21] HB: it depends on the situation
[00:21] me: yeah just something natural right
[00:22] me: and not a pickup line
[00:22] HB: a small joke is good
[00:22] HB: right
[00:22] me: yea
[00:22] HB: maybe a little sarcasm
[00:22] me: what i was thinking of doing is approaching 50 women and seeing how many #s i can get
[00:24] HB: how many, how many fakes and how many reals?
[00:24] me: yea well i dont know if i will call them to find out cause thats a lot of work
[00:27] HB: lol
[00:27] HB: one of the best pick up lines my friends and i still joke about was this guy offering to buy my friend a bottle of water with 2 straws so they could share it
[00:27] me: lol
[00:27] HB: at the time it was like 3 in the morning and we were beyond drunk
[00:28] HB: and one of my friends was asking 'wheres the water?' and this guy overheard her
[00:28] me: do u approach guys
[00:29] HB: very very rarely
[00:29] me: cuase they have to have the balls to approach u right
[00:30] HB: pretty much
[00:30] HB: and im just not that kind of girl
[00:30] HB: wait
[00:30] HB: if im drunk i will approach you
[00:30] me: lol
[00:30] HB: or if im just out having fun i will
[00:30] HB: but its a little different for chicks
[00:31] me: how so, its just for fun?
[00:31] HB: no my chances of getting shot down are signifcantly smaller than yours
[00:32] me: yea
[00:32] me: why are u girls so harsh lol;
[00:32] HB: lol cuz we dont want our friends to think we're sluts
[00:33] me: nothing wrong with being a slut
[00:34] HB: lol
[00:34] HB: yes there is
[00:34] me: ok
[00:35] HB: but after a few drinks thats out the window
[00:35] me: yea
[00:36] me: so whats the best way for a guy to get into a girls pants
[00:38] HB: depends on what youre looking for
[00:38] HB: are you looking for one night or a relationship?
[00:38] me: oh im just asking in general, really depends on the mood
[00:38] HB: your local slut or a good girl with naughty tendancies?
[00:38] HB: ok well if you're at a bar
[00:39] HB: and you're interested in one chick sitting with her friend you need another guy with you
[00:39] me: yea to keep her occupied
[00:40] HB: exactly
[00:40] HB: big groups run a 5050 risk - less chance she'll be noticed slipping away but more chance of a ****block by a jealous 'friend'
[00:41] HB: if its a group of 3 or less you have to buy all three a drink
[00:41] HB: or else you look cheap
[00:41] me: what about a girl at a mall or something
[00:42] HB: is it a bar ini the mall?
[00:42] me: no she is shopping, i know this is very hard but say you want to hook up with her within a day or 2
[00:42] HB: ok make sure you're not approachingher in the underwear/womens section of any store
[00:43] HB: i dont believe its for your gf or your mother
[00:43] me: lol
[00:43] HB:
[00:43] HB: ask for advice 'hey have you read/heard this'?
[00:44] me: k
[00:44] HB: and then eventually somethinig along the lines of 'so i think you're really nice, why dont you give me your number so we can talk later and maybe grab a drink or dinner?'
[00:44] HB: or you could cu it off at 'talk later'
[00:45] me: yeah
[00:45] me: ok do u think its possible to hook up with her like that afternoon, how would u do that
[00:45] HB: i honestly dont know
[00:45] me: i guess he'd have to be a super player
[00:45] HB: the only time i hook up with guys the same day/night is when i meet them at parties
[00:14] HB: it depends on how its done
[00:15] HB: ive only 'hung out' with one guy that ive met randomly
[00:15] HB: the rest are somehow connected to me
[00:15] me: if ure at the mall, is it alright if a guy approaches u
[00:15] HB: thats fine
[00:15] HB: although if he gives me his number i will never call
[00:15] me: yea we know that
[00:15] HB: and theres less than a 5050 ill give him my real number
[00:15] HB: lol
[00:16] HB: LMAO
[00:16] me: so how do u decide to give a real or fake number
[00:16] HB: on what the guy talks about when he appoaches me
[00:17] me: whats a good thing to talk about
[00:17] HB: and for me personally other than the height factor looks have very little to do with it
[00:17] HB: ummm anythings good
[00:17] HB: nothing overtly sexual
[00:17] me: im 6-3 im not too worried about height
[00:17] me: so just be normal right
[00:17] HB: and its too early for religion, abortion or politics
[00:17] me: if hes pretty normal and reasonably attractive he can get a #
[00:18] HB: maybe
[00:18] HB: too attractive is a negative as well
[00:18] HB: cuz then hes got chicks from every mall calling him
[00:18] me: every mall? how so
[00:18] HB: if hes hot/too smooth he obviously does than frequently
[00:18] HB: thats not cool
[00:19] me: ah i see
[00:19] me: so if hes slightly nervous its actually a good thing
[00:19] HB: there really needs to be a common interest as well
[00:19] HB: slightly nervous but not sweating like a pig either
[00:19] me: lol yea
[00:19] me: im thinking about doing an experiment
[00:19] HB: oh really
[00:20] me: yea
[00:20] HB: ?
[00:20] me: what is a good opening line
[00:21] HB: it depends on the situation
[00:21] me: yeah just something natural right
[00:22] me: and not a pickup line
[00:22] HB: a small joke is good
[00:22] HB: right
[00:22] me: yea
[00:22] HB: maybe a little sarcasm
[00:22] me: what i was thinking of doing is approaching 50 women and seeing how many #s i can get
[00:24] HB: how many, how many fakes and how many reals?
[00:24] me: yea well i dont know if i will call them to find out cause thats a lot of work
[00:27] HB: lol
[00:27] HB: one of the best pick up lines my friends and i still joke about was this guy offering to buy my friend a bottle of water with 2 straws so they could share it
[00:27] me: lol
[00:27] HB: at the time it was like 3 in the morning and we were beyond drunk
[00:28] HB: and one of my friends was asking 'wheres the water?' and this guy overheard her
[00:28] me: do u approach guys
[00:29] HB: very very rarely
[00:29] me: cuase they have to have the balls to approach u right
[00:30] HB: pretty much
[00:30] HB: and im just not that kind of girl
[00:30] HB: wait
[00:30] HB: if im drunk i will approach you
[00:30] me: lol
[00:30] HB: or if im just out having fun i will
[00:30] HB: but its a little different for chicks
[00:31] me: how so, its just for fun?
[00:31] HB: no my chances of getting shot down are signifcantly smaller than yours
[00:32] me: yea
[00:32] me: why are u girls so harsh lol;
[00:32] HB: lol cuz we dont want our friends to think we're sluts
[00:33] me: nothing wrong with being a slut
[00:34] HB: lol
[00:34] HB: yes there is
[00:34] me: ok
[00:35] HB: but after a few drinks thats out the window
[00:35] me: yea
[00:36] me: so whats the best way for a guy to get into a girls pants
[00:38] HB: depends on what youre looking for
[00:38] HB: are you looking for one night or a relationship?
[00:38] me: oh im just asking in general, really depends on the mood
[00:38] HB: your local slut or a good girl with naughty tendancies?
[00:38] HB: ok well if you're at a bar
[00:39] HB: and you're interested in one chick sitting with her friend you need another guy with you
[00:39] me: yea to keep her occupied
[00:40] HB: exactly
[00:40] HB: big groups run a 5050 risk - less chance she'll be noticed slipping away but more chance of a ****block by a jealous 'friend'
[00:41] HB: if its a group of 3 or less you have to buy all three a drink
[00:41] HB: or else you look cheap
[00:41] me: what about a girl at a mall or something
[00:42] HB: is it a bar ini the mall?
[00:42] me: no she is shopping, i know this is very hard but say you want to hook up with her within a day or 2
[00:42] HB: ok make sure you're not approachingher in the underwear/womens section of any store
[00:43] HB: i dont believe its for your gf or your mother
[00:43] me: lol
[00:43] HB:
[00:43] HB: ask for advice 'hey have you read/heard this'?
[00:44] me: k
[00:44] HB: and then eventually somethinig along the lines of 'so i think you're really nice, why dont you give me your number so we can talk later and maybe grab a drink or dinner?'
[00:44] HB: or you could cu it off at 'talk later'
[00:45] me: yeah
[00:45] me: ok do u think its possible to hook up with her like that afternoon, how would u do that
[00:45] HB: i honestly dont know
[00:45] me: i guess he'd have to be a super player
[00:45] HB: the only time i hook up with guys the same day/night is when i meet them at parties
