Andy_Dufresne
Senior Don Juan
Have you heard this one...after sex? This has happened to me a couple of times in my past relationships. Interestingly enough its happened with the hottest 2 babes I've been with and after I thought I had pushed the sexual envelope to the extreme.
In both cases it was after several months of intimacy, and after the women both had told me they loved me, and were considering marriage (no ****). I ended both relationships for reasons other than this (kids, moving out of state, etc.) but them making the statement, even in passing, definitely had a factor in my decision to ultimately end things. In both cases their first husbands were "wild childs" and rich kid DJs so I was following tough act(s). I figured if they're bored with me throwing my best at them for six months...what is gonna happen after six years?
Candidly...anyone else have this experience with a lover, and what did it mean to you after you heard it? Was your woman trying to just spice things up in a postive way, or did you read into it a little deeper as I did. What is the meaning of this statement? If you heard it in the context I just described would it be a red flag?
In both cases it was after several months of intimacy, and after the women both had told me they loved me, and were considering marriage (no ****). I ended both relationships for reasons other than this (kids, moving out of state, etc.) but them making the statement, even in passing, definitely had a factor in my decision to ultimately end things. In both cases their first husbands were "wild childs" and rich kid DJs so I was following tough act(s). I figured if they're bored with me throwing my best at them for six months...what is gonna happen after six years?
Candidly...anyone else have this experience with a lover, and what did it mean to you after you heard it? Was your woman trying to just spice things up in a postive way, or did you read into it a little deeper as I did. What is the meaning of this statement? If you heard it in the context I just described would it be a red flag?