tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Met a girl last night. Pretty cute and with beer goggles on, a definite keeper. We were talking the whole night. She was giving of tons off IOIs with her body language. I got her number, did lots of kino. She asked if I was dating anyone. In other words, this was a "go".
I actually got to the point of isolation. It was just me and her upstairs, and the whole party was downstairs. We were very messed up (drugs and alcohol), and she said she wanted to call it a night.
And I chickened out. Didn't suggest walking back with her, didn't suggest chilling back at her place. NOTHING. As much attraction as she was showing (and believe me it was there), she didn't overtly invite me back so I didn't make the first move. She hinted at it, saying she'd have the room to herself etc. but I was hoping she would be more outright. Ugh. I was afraid of rejection, too stoned and too nervous to capitalize.
She ended up walking back by herself and wished me good night.
Totally screwed up. I'll probably never get that chance with her again.
The only good thing that came out of this is I know how I would close now (offer to walk with her so she's not alone), so I'll be better off in the future.
However, right now I'm pretty angry I couldn't close, and it's my fault too. Can someone offer any advice?
I actually got to the point of isolation. It was just me and her upstairs, and the whole party was downstairs. We were very messed up (drugs and alcohol), and she said she wanted to call it a night.
And I chickened out. Didn't suggest walking back with her, didn't suggest chilling back at her place. NOTHING. As much attraction as she was showing (and believe me it was there), she didn't overtly invite me back so I didn't make the first move. She hinted at it, saying she'd have the room to herself etc. but I was hoping she would be more outright. Ugh. I was afraid of rejection, too stoned and too nervous to capitalize.
She ended up walking back by herself and wished me good night.
Totally screwed up. I'll probably never get that chance with her again.
The only good thing that came out of this is I know how I would close now (offer to walk with her so she's not alone), so I'll be better off in the future.
However, right now I'm pretty angry I couldn't close, and it's my fault too. Can someone offer any advice?