Greetings to everyone,
So here's the dilemma I have: I may not be a very tall person necessarily-the height listed on the ID I've been using here where I've been working in Central Africa (based on what they got from the scale they used) lists me as (1.76m in height or 5'9; I don't believe it because I think I am actually 1.80m or 5'10)
Now it just so happens that my current girlfriend seems to have 90% of the qualities I've been looking for in a potential fiancée/wife (someone for a serious relationship, and our relationship has been going on now pretty strong since we met downtown six months ago)-she's a strong Christian, dynamic, pretty, intelligent, big time curves, caring and sensitive, hard working, etc. Problem is in terms of height she's really, really short-1.51m or 4'11.
She doesn't consider her height an asset at all and feels quite insecure about it when she gets to talk about some of her experiences in the professional and business world where people think she can be pushed around because of it or that she's a young lady in her early 20s even though she's 28.
I keep reading about how if a man wishes to have tall offspring in the future, it is best to hook up with a tall woman because the shorter the woman such as in my girlfriend's case, the more likely you are to have very short offspring. Yet the truth is hooking up with a tall woman doesn't necessarily imply that you're gonna be happy with her or have peace as in the end, character is what matters most, at least to me.
And you can't dump someone you're dating just because she's very short. She's so attached to me, I like her a lot too but I'm also trying to think at the moment like a man who would like to have offspring someday.
So here's the dilemma I have: I may not be a very tall person necessarily-the height listed on the ID I've been using here where I've been working in Central Africa (based on what they got from the scale they used) lists me as (1.76m in height or 5'9; I don't believe it because I think I am actually 1.80m or 5'10)
Now it just so happens that my current girlfriend seems to have 90% of the qualities I've been looking for in a potential fiancée/wife (someone for a serious relationship, and our relationship has been going on now pretty strong since we met downtown six months ago)-she's a strong Christian, dynamic, pretty, intelligent, big time curves, caring and sensitive, hard working, etc. Problem is in terms of height she's really, really short-1.51m or 4'11.
She doesn't consider her height an asset at all and feels quite insecure about it when she gets to talk about some of her experiences in the professional and business world where people think she can be pushed around because of it or that she's a young lady in her early 20s even though she's 28.
I keep reading about how if a man wishes to have tall offspring in the future, it is best to hook up with a tall woman because the shorter the woman such as in my girlfriend's case, the more likely you are to have very short offspring. Yet the truth is hooking up with a tall woman doesn't necessarily imply that you're gonna be happy with her or have peace as in the end, character is what matters most, at least to me.
And you can't dump someone you're dating just because she's very short. She's so attached to me, I like her a lot too but I'm also trying to think at the moment like a man who would like to have offspring someday.