PappyS said:
The reason to pay for sex is to fvck without bvllsh!t. Straight to the point. Also to get them to fvck off afterward.
If men are doing all the relationship bvllsh!t for women then the women may not care if they go out with whures on the side. Frankly most customers of whures are probably married men anyway. A lot of wives will look the other way if their husband is fvcking whures, or if he has other girlfriends, or if he is a homosexual fvcking other men in public washrooms. They don't care as long as he does all that relationship bvllsh!t for them. As long as they get their bills paid or whatever they're happy.
But if men who didn't want relationships were having their sexual needs met by whures instead of trying to get a wife or girlfriend, then women would be upset. If men paid for pvssy instead of spending a lot of money or kissing women's azzes just to get laid, then women would be upset.
You still dont understand what I'm saying. Once your a high value male you can have your cake and eat it too, you can go around getting girls numbers and bang them by the end of the week if you play your cards right. You can meet them in the moring and be in bed with them that very night. If you want a relationship then you won't have to worry about finding a girl but worry about which girl TO CHOOSE, she in turn WILL give you all the sex you want and need because she will fear losing you, she will also keep her body mind and soul up to date so that you don't go looking for another woman/women. Some may even settle for just being your fu(k buddy while you decide the right time to get married.
You wouldn't have to PAY for sex ever again.
I'll use myself as an example, right now I've got 2 girls that are head over heels for me but I only visit them when I want some sex or need to chill out with a decent chick. I dont have to put up with any bullsh!t I turn up to their apartment get food and drink watch a movie or talk a little about how the week was and then get down to business, all it cost me was to drive to their place and nothing more. After that I'm back doing my thing always looking for more plates to add to the cycle. I don't have to fork out any money at all to get what I want, and every now and then the girls try and push me tp commit and I keep deflecting the discussion away, if they get too pushy I cut them loose and move on, not because I don't want to be in a relationship but right now I have at least 3 major goals to achieve before I even consider going for a relationship again.
Like you said if your woman didn't or doesn't care who your sleeping with or what you do aslong as the bills are paid and the kids are looked after then really your no more of a check book for her and nothing else. She doesn't care because all her needs are being looked after and she knows your sorry a$$ won't leave because your too weak to stand up for yourself.
If your paying for a working girl to have sex with you then you my friend are being super lazy and shouldn't you as a dj be able to go chill out with one of the many many ladies you are dating at any given day at her place or have her come to your place instead of using your phone to fork out money for some sex.
Using a prostitute is plain lazyness, no matter if your single or in a relationship, the reason why your looking for sex else where is because your not getting enough with the social skills that you by now should have learned and developed.
If your single why are you not chasing many many girls and instead of worrying about using a call girl worry about "hmmm which girl should I go out and bang tonight".
If your in a relationship and your looking to pay for sex then you need to get out of that relationship and start chasing other girls who will satisfy your need for sex.
Bottom line is that using a prostitute is being LAZY no matter how you try and justify this behaviour you and I both know its a lazy choice.