I want to be desired by women I desire

[Philippe Schlichting]

I want to be desired by women I desire for who I am, for sitting in front of my computer all day and enjoying it, for not being a music producer or photographer, for not being a protector.

I want them to desire me when I approach them and I don't want them to tell me about their boyfriend.

 

[JohnChops]

I want to be desired by women I desire for who I am, for sitting in front of my computer all day and enjoying it, for not being a music producer or photographer, for not being a protector.

I want them to desire me when I approach them and I don't want them to tell me about their boyfriend.

You just have to find the type of girl who is interested in the same things you are. For example you say you sit in front of the computer all day, so find a girl who is into programming/gamming/computer science/ etc.

However, all women want a protector, you simply aren't a man if you are not a protector. It was how women were when picking mates thousands of years ago and it is still how they are now, just a lot less subtle about it.

 

[switch]

I want to be desired by women I desire for who I am, for sitting in front of my computer all day and enjoying it, for not being a music producer or photographer, for not being a protector.

I want them to desire me when I approach them and I don't want them to tell me about their boyfriend.

well good luck with that, actually there are quiet number of girls who will be your girlfriend....for example here is a pic of what that girl might look like
http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSuJIPPXn-eQ4sbFKCT2GlQAy16K78IZHEEfq4Be0d23lZiXnHaKA

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[twentee]

u r very limited if that's all you do, dude. Learn a martial art, learn to shoot (perhaps a bow?), drive a motorcycle, do backpack camping/hiking, hunt and fish, canoe/rafting.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

u r very limited if that's all you do, dude. Learn a martial art, learn to shoot (perhaps a bow?), drive a motorcycle, do backpack camping/hiking, hunt and fish, canoe/rafting.

No I am not limited. I learnt martial arts, I find shooting boring(also it's only possible in gun clubs here, you can't just buy a gun and go shooting in the woods), I don't care about a motorcycle, I find this boring, re hitchhiking, I see no point in freezing at a motorway because nobody wants me to join him for the sole reason that I am male., fishing is dull and rafting not fun either.

Also I very much doubt that you did any of that. Maybe you practice martial arts, but that's it. You seem like the guy who accomplished something and doesn't know how. Then he rationalizes backwards.

I am not putting that down like that, as you see I did most of it to realize how dull and boring it is. Same with weight lifting btw. Boring repetitive sh.it.

You just have to find the type of girl who is interested in the same things you are. For example you say you sit in front of the computer all day, so find a girl who is into programming/gamming/computer science/ etc.

However, all women want a protector, you simply aren't a man if you are not a protector. It was how women were when picking mates thousands of years ago and it is still how they are now, just a lot less subtle about it.

How in the world should I - being bullied in school, failed in every martial art I practised because I was beat up all the time - protect someone else if I cannot even protect myself? How should that work out? I don't know, how.

Why can't I be like those males who can protect their woman, why can't I just have the confidence to be able to protect her why do I always have to be that ****ing helpless ant?

 

[Zion]

Generally ,the people who enjoy sitting at the computer all they , those that don't enjoy going out in social enviroments are the introverts and the ones that are 'afraid of the world'.
Trust me on that , I'm a computer science student. I get the chance to closely observe this traits on a regular basis.

As far as women go , beautiful ones rarely or never are any of the 2. They get validated and showered with attention constantly , so they have no feeling of inadequacy. They enjoy themselves while out.


5 to 6 years back I used to take refuge in the safe haven of my own room , playing video games all day instead of ever going out(for the exact reasons I just mentioned.I strongly denied it back then,obviously). And when I say all day,I mean all day. Needles to say that those are now what I see as wasted years. Don't get me wrong , there's nothing bad about video games. The bad part is the excessiveness. I still play some retarded games when I hang around skype with my bros and there's nothing better to do ,but don't use it as a refuge to escape the real world. That's when problems start.


So yeah, if social activities wouldn't be fun , people wouldn't do them. You say you don't enjoy those activities , but the truth is you don't enjoy yourself doing them. You feel inadequate because of your social fears and anxieties.



Long story short , if you want beautiful women , you'll be as lucky as winning the lottery to ever find one that will love that you never wanna go out and sit on the laptop all day.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

So yeah, if social activities wouldn't be fun , people wouldn't do them.

Your reply does not offer a solution. How should I enjoy activities that I didn't enjoy in the past?

 

[switch]

OP is delusional as fvck, why would a hot girl , date a loser who sits at home, munching cheetose and playing "call of faggots" day in day out?
get out , get a life.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

OP is delusional as fvck, why would a hot girl , date a loser who sits at home, munching cheetose and playing "call of faggots" day in day out?
get out , get a life.

You mean, getting a life like yours, full of exciting events like daily skydiving and constant fights with other guys that you always win, while being on your yacht the rest of the time with 20 girls who do whatever you please?

PS: I have never played call of duty and I don't know what cheetose is - and I don't want to know. I am no loser.

 

[Burroughs]

I want to be desired by women I desire for who I am, for sitting in front of my computer all day and enjoying it, for not being a music producer or photographer, for not being a protector.

I want them to desire me when I approach them and I don't want them to tell me about their boyfriend.

that is NEVER going to happen

dream another dream...that dream is over

there is no solution for you

 

[switch]

You mean, getting a life like yours, full of exciting events like daily skydiving and constant fights with other guys that you always win, while being on your yacht the rest of the time with 20 girls who do whatever you please?

PS: I have never played call of duty and I don't know what cheetose is - and I don't want to know. I am no loser.

getting a life is not banging 20 chicks, or fapping on your yacht, skydiving or anything like that.

getting a life means having a dream or goal. trying to become a better person and everything else pook wrote about in his hour long posts.

and yes you are not a loser, just someone mindfvcked by hollywood into thinking that a yacht or banging a supermodel is called " life"

70% of women out there will despise you, doesnt matter if you are a rockstar or herbert the pervert...

also if you notice the women who are interested in you are the women you are not interested in...think about why you are not interested in those women.....those are the exact same reasons a HB8 doesnt desire you

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I want to be desired by women I desire for who I am, for sitting in front of my computer all day and enjoying it, for not being a music producer or photographer, for not being a protector.

I want them to desire me when I approach them and I don't want them to tell me about their boyfriend.

Translation:

IRT "approaches" women who strip on cam while sitting at his cvm-puter all day enjoying it.

IRT wants chicks he desires who strip on cam to "desire" him.

IRT gets the "I have a boyfriend" rejection from chicks who strip on cam.

IRT doesn't leave his house to actually see how an Indian would do in Toronto let alone need to worry about being a protector since he's an incel recluse virgin.

IRT is a diseased minded trollololol who has no interest in being taken seriously but rather seen as a complete lunatic.

 

[twentee]

waaaa! I want my bottle and my mobile. I am bored. Sounds like you need to live somewhere else. NOBODY considers combat matches boring, ever. running obstacle courses, against the timer, or man vs man, who is fastest to get all the hits. Yes, mere target shooting is like watching grass grow. If anyone DARED hurt me as part of the training I am PAYING them to give me, they'd regret it, somewhere down the road, from a burned down house to a shot up car, to a 4ft length of pipe applied across their lumbar. You must come across like a floormat, if anyone treats you like that. i would never DREAM of letting anyone get away with that.

 

[JoeMarron]

Be patient bro. The sex robots will be here in due time.

 

[SamTheHobit]

If your not willing to work on yourself then be willing to settle.

As a solution to your problem.

Go out and approach 100 girls and get as much numbers as you can and go out with them, until you get a girlfriend. Rince and repeat.

Be prepared to get rejected alot. Preferably drink a little alcohol when you do this to get you warmed up.

 

[foreverAFC]

we all want that, but some of us need to be realistic with ourselves and realize this just isnt possible, not everyone will become a ladies man or a DJ even if they tried their whole lives, but like i said its not the end of the world you just need to realize and become comfortable with it and then learn to get your kicks from other things in life, things like substance abuse, prostitutes, pornography, gambling, massage parlours etc.... i mean even if you arent able to become a ladies man there is still plenty of fun you can have before you really crash and burn

 

[VladPatton]

Be patient bro. The sex robots will be here in due time.

Hahahahaha, priceless!!

 

[PapiChulo]

You don't have to have to go "skydiving everyday" and climb Everest every month at all. These are some of the things people do for themselves and at times- out of solitude. I ve gotten into paragliding last year and there are lonely men in this sport from all different walks of life and different levels of sanity. There is possibility to forge some really strong relationships though. What I mean is that you don't have to do anything awesome with your life to have friends/women, you just have to be sociable projecting empathy onto others. You also have to be agreeable. In my understanding when people talk about "having life", they inevitably imply social life. I am introverted myself and all I seek is a couple of like-minded individuals to do great things together.

 

[goundra]

u think guitar players, etc, just FELL INTO their skills? Know what Fleetwood Mac said about how long it takes to be a good band? TEN YEARS of working like dogs. The world is full of lazy, incompetent, impatient men, so why should women settle for such,hmmm? Many men go without female companionship for YEARS, while they build themselves into the "gods' that women eventually go nuts about.

 

[Megaman XIV]

Either invent sex robots (they'll be here in about 2020), become an athlete, or a multimillionaire. Simple. Otherwise, you're in fantasy world.