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i need some tips, reminders, and sugestions please. boys we have a 10

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ok i met this girl on myspace. shes 29 (im 22) and she is easily a 10. she is from arizona and las vegas. we live in colorado springs and i havent seen many at her level. ive dropped a few things via e mail to get her interested. so far she thinks im difficult( in a good way) open minded, and exciting. i told her when i go out im a rock star. she said good, she likes rock stars. i called her tonight for the first time(she offered me her # and said she wanted to go out) well we talked for an hour. i tryed to end the call at like 45 minutes but she kept talking, then she was like im goin to bed. so i kinda feel like i failed there. she said she was into palm reading and **** like that so we talked about that for a minute and some other fluff talk. well this is my first time dealing with a 10. so im not gonna lie im kinda nervous and i have 2 days to get my **** together. so im asking for a little pep talk here. anything might help. thanx

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When she flakes on you, say by calling at a time other than what she promised, showing up at a time other than what she promised, etc., this is what you're going to do:

Explain to her patiently that this isn't respectful behaviour, tell her that you only deal with women who behave respectfully. If she decides she wants to be respectful from here on in, she can call you back and explain why she's sorry and she will be respectful from there on. Hang up. Wait for call.
 

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First off, post the link to her myspace profile, I want to see if she is a 10.

Second, treat her like any other girl. Dont worship those looks. 10s are used to getting compliments and things done for them because of their good looks. They will dig guys who can treat them normal.
 

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dude ,
are you a rockstar?
lots of chicks love to be groupies for bands.

the real question is are you ever going to meet her being so far away and if so when do you plan that and how?

until you have decided that and she has agreed , it really doesnt seem fair to yourself to get so worked up right now.

if you go meet her and have a great time and there are sparks , then what?
are you willing to get involved with someone long distance?

think about it before you start it .
 

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10? In other words 100% perfect?, you can tell that by a photo? Shiver me timbers I'm 29 and Ive never seen a 10 in my life, dont even think I've seen anything above an 8.5 in 12 years, some punks have all the luck.

What kind of rockstar talks to a b!tch for 45 minutes? and then to add insult to injury has the b!tch end the conversation on him....apart from Phil Collins?

The b!tch is 30 your 22 which means by default if you CAN pull this off it will most likely be a short term fling thing until she can get the "I'm still an attractive woman and can still land young men, youve still got it, you go girl" thing out of her system, so dont be looking for an LTR, hell has a better chance of being frosty than that happening, unless shes socially inept, but by the rating you gave her I doubt she is.

Phonecalls? Unless youve tapped it anything over 10 minutes is too long, be careful you dont become another of her online ego booster/phone buddy minions. Stick to the basics, fvck her asap or next her, there are no "BUTS" here, the b!tch's skill and comfort with the game is thricefold better than yours, the instant she has you questioning yourself but still no action is your que to fvck her off.

If and when you 2 hookup your theme for the night should be:

TAKE CHARGE
 

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You're already putting her on a pedestal!

Stick with the basics man! You are confident. You own her. You are the prize, not her.

KINO KINO KINO...use it!

Goodluck Mate.
 

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Originally posted by Verbal
i tryed to end the call at like 45 minutes but she kept talking, then she was like im goin to bed.
Say what? Why did you let this happen? You should be doing this to her, not the other way around.

Next time, if you go to end the call and they keep talking, just say
"That great, I'll talk to you later" or something of the like. Then hang up.

As mentioned above a phone conversation this long rarely helps you and can often hurt you.
 
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SamePendo

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You know how much porn you can look at in 45 minutes?

Ask her out, if she flakes, next her.

If she doesn´t, try to have a good time with her on the date (not the other way around). End of story.
 
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