Good advice so far. Very much appreciated.
@Warrior75- Thanks for the compliment, but I have not "made up my mind", which is why I posted this. I hold the "Veteran" posters of Sosuave.com in high regard, for they have Wisdom (Personal experience) and Knowledge (by reading information posted on this website by others) in the area of Dating. I always look for others perspectives on such matters, it helps me develop.
@jophil28- I did not mean anything negative by my comment to "sodbuster" I just have little tolerance for someone telling me what to do. Suggestions are always welcome, commands are not. I felt like he commanded, so I took appropriate action in a respectful manner.
Also I am glad you approve. You said "However you do not yet have the experience with women that generates wisdom and discernment." I am 100% positive that you are correct in the assumption, but how am I supposed to get experience without taking some risks? I see this situation as a chance to learn something. To me there are no failures in life, only lessons or opportunities and once I make a perceived mistake, I always correct it. Also you said "Good luck with this- we are here if you need to "talk" . I have a hunch that you will be back in a few months." I do not think it will take months. It could take Minutes, Hours, Days or Weeks. If I see any serious problems, this "relationship" will be over a.s.a.p. I do not "play games" of this nature. I think I will stick around here for a bit, but I would LOVE to hear any tips you may have on women/dating, you and Warrior75. PM me please, I think it would be a nice discussion.
@logic1-"yelp, you have it figured out. You have nothing to learn here." I would argue to the contrary. I still have much to learn and ponder. In fact I am sure I will be learning things for the rest of my existence on this planet. I look forward to it.
@Julius_Seizeher- I like your moniker, it is very witty in my opinion. And yes I am aware why you may perceive it in that manner. I studied all the works of "Pook" from this website and his blog, and yes the manipulation of honest, trustworthy into slaves, is widely abound in the American culture but, trust me, I am no fool and I, figuratively speaking, squash Spiders for fun. (I would never do it literally though, I respect all forms of life) Thanks for your response.
@iqqi- Why are you "criticizing" me unnecessarily? I use my extended vocabulary whenever I wish. And we, more accurately you, seem to have a misunderstood a few things:
"The best advice you'll get on this is (drum roll please!)... just have fun."
1.)Gee wilikers, thanks Captain Obvious. :eyeroll: "Fun" is a goal in all of my endeavors of life. You might want consider being more mindful of your feelings, arrogance is not a good trait to have in my opinion. Unless you were not attempting to be arrogant. Perhaps it was funny/sarcasm, that you attempted to convey? I do not know, please clarify.
"The age difference might not matter once you are a little older, but right now you are just way too young to even worry about serious romances with 30 year olds."
2.)My exact statement was " I am positive she is looking for a serious relationship..." Which is not an absolute certainty or fact. It is merely speculation. Furthermore what makes you assume that I am "worrying" about anything. I keep a detached objective mind set when dealing with issues, so "worrying" about anything, for me, is not only unproductive but also impractical, for things will happen as they happen when and if they do happen. So if I can't change it, I do not waste my precious time dwelling on it.
"If you happen to find yourself in a year long, or even a two year long, relationship with this woman... then great! Maybe you'll learn something. Otherwise, just go with the flow, and have fun."
3.) Good advice, I am highly doubtful it will get that far but hey, who knows
"f she is naive enough to think that a 19 year old is anywhere near ready for marriage, that is her fault. She is older and should know better."
4.) I am 19 in physical age only. Intellectually, Morally, Philosophically, etc I am "different". And you are overlooking that fact that "Marriage" is not apart of my future. I stated that in a previous post. In fact I know "Marriage" is just a long-term or life financial contract and I think its absurd. In fact don't even think life long monogamous relationships are even a Natural occurrence for our species, but that is an entirely different topic altogether.
Thanks a lot for your responses, I have a lot to think about. I look forward to the replies
