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Don Juan
(Sorry for the length of this by the way)
I’ve been Don juaning for years but I’ve just joined the forum and it’s great how it’s still around. I usually check Rollo’s blog if something occurs but I don’t know what to do with this particular girl and it’s necessary I give you a quick overview of my experiences before getting to the juice:
I'm 21. Me and my cousins came across the whole PUA world – Deangelo, Pook etc - in our early teens (I was 12). I’ve slept with several different women growing up and so on. I left university a year ago after the first year of study as I didn't see how the course would benefit my ambition. By then I had decided women have never caused me problems but they’re not helping my goals. I decided to focus on my designing fully in hopes of being successful in it.
A week before I left uni I met a girl (she's 20) who lives in the city (2 hours away from me). I met with her once and told her it wouldn't work because I don't want a gf and we live far apart. Then afterwards, something strange happened, she sent me a message telling me I had a good impact on her and she wanted to see me again. Despite all the women I had been with, I had never heard a girl even tell me she liked me, openly anyway. I thought whoa, so decided to say wassup to her whenever I was in town to see some friends for the day. I saw her 2 times before she got her own place, then we had sex and she saw me around once/twice a month at my place afterwards. We became an item for 4 months. I was entirely faithful with ease during that time but it felt pointless as I rarely saw her and didn’t want the distraction so I broke up with her. Despite that she said she still wanted to see me. Cool. I slept with two other people and did minor things with a few others in the following months. We were **** buddys during that time. I didn’t tell her at first, but we got close again, and I felt the need to be honest (I know not cool) so told her about my antics. She was upset but still saw me and started calling and texting more often. She went on holiday a few weeks ago and rang me a few days into it saying she couldn't move on. Like a fool I felt obliged to tell her I brought a girl back home a few days after she caught the plane but I didn't do anything with them. She was devastated. She ended up ****ing 3 people on her holiday after that. I was annoyed by her behaviour at first then I thought that’s ridiculous. After lots of crying (on her side) and me calling her (I know not cool) I said it’s good and we’re not together so do whatever and don’t tell me since it’s not my biz. (I used to be overtly alpha in the relationship by the way, mentioning other girls and so on but I stopped that, funnily enough I came across that on Rollo’s blog soon after, assumed mastery, mystery?)
Here’s why I’m stuck, she’s made jokes and a few comments about kids in the past, now in the weeks after she’s come back from holiday, almost every text and phone call is about how she NEEDS my child. I brush it away as jests, tell her I aint settling, more people for us to meet and so on. She agrees then repeats herself. Also, I have other girls on speed dial and so on and I can’t be bothered to mess with them in all honesty. I rarely club and never look for new girls in general because I don’t want to waste time. I want to, and do spend most of my time on my designing. Anyway I looked back on things with her and realised I could have been sharper, less attached and so on so I re-read ALL of Rollo’s blog as I thought my game needed tightening and I wanted to “Leave her better off than when I first met her,” It helped but she only likes me more (if that’s possible). SO, I was thinking, should I just get with her? I’ve tried to keep her as my side chick but she keeps pushing in. No other girl’s behaved like this for so long. She’s hot, and I know/have been with hotter, so is it Oneitis? I’ve tried to go dark on her several times but maybe I just haven’t had the balls to cut her off completely so is this AFC? Am I ego tripping? Why does she keep bringing up babies? Help me out if you can people...
Thanks
I’ve been Don juaning for years but I’ve just joined the forum and it’s great how it’s still around. I usually check Rollo’s blog if something occurs but I don’t know what to do with this particular girl and it’s necessary I give you a quick overview of my experiences before getting to the juice:
I'm 21. Me and my cousins came across the whole PUA world – Deangelo, Pook etc - in our early teens (I was 12). I’ve slept with several different women growing up and so on. I left university a year ago after the first year of study as I didn't see how the course would benefit my ambition. By then I had decided women have never caused me problems but they’re not helping my goals. I decided to focus on my designing fully in hopes of being successful in it.
A week before I left uni I met a girl (she's 20) who lives in the city (2 hours away from me). I met with her once and told her it wouldn't work because I don't want a gf and we live far apart. Then afterwards, something strange happened, she sent me a message telling me I had a good impact on her and she wanted to see me again. Despite all the women I had been with, I had never heard a girl even tell me she liked me, openly anyway. I thought whoa, so decided to say wassup to her whenever I was in town to see some friends for the day. I saw her 2 times before she got her own place, then we had sex and she saw me around once/twice a month at my place afterwards. We became an item for 4 months. I was entirely faithful with ease during that time but it felt pointless as I rarely saw her and didn’t want the distraction so I broke up with her. Despite that she said she still wanted to see me. Cool. I slept with two other people and did minor things with a few others in the following months. We were **** buddys during that time. I didn’t tell her at first, but we got close again, and I felt the need to be honest (I know not cool) so told her about my antics. She was upset but still saw me and started calling and texting more often. She went on holiday a few weeks ago and rang me a few days into it saying she couldn't move on. Like a fool I felt obliged to tell her I brought a girl back home a few days after she caught the plane but I didn't do anything with them. She was devastated. She ended up ****ing 3 people on her holiday after that. I was annoyed by her behaviour at first then I thought that’s ridiculous. After lots of crying (on her side) and me calling her (I know not cool) I said it’s good and we’re not together so do whatever and don’t tell me since it’s not my biz. (I used to be overtly alpha in the relationship by the way, mentioning other girls and so on but I stopped that, funnily enough I came across that on Rollo’s blog soon after, assumed mastery, mystery?)
Here’s why I’m stuck, she’s made jokes and a few comments about kids in the past, now in the weeks after she’s come back from holiday, almost every text and phone call is about how she NEEDS my child. I brush it away as jests, tell her I aint settling, more people for us to meet and so on. She agrees then repeats herself. Also, I have other girls on speed dial and so on and I can’t be bothered to mess with them in all honesty. I rarely club and never look for new girls in general because I don’t want to waste time. I want to, and do spend most of my time on my designing. Anyway I looked back on things with her and realised I could have been sharper, less attached and so on so I re-read ALL of Rollo’s blog as I thought my game needed tightening and I wanted to “Leave her better off than when I first met her,” It helped but she only likes me more (if that’s possible). SO, I was thinking, should I just get with her? I’ve tried to keep her as my side chick but she keeps pushing in. No other girl’s behaved like this for so long. She’s hot, and I know/have been with hotter, so is it Oneitis? I’ve tried to go dark on her several times but maybe I just haven’t had the balls to cut her off completely so is this AFC? Am I ego tripping? Why does she keep bringing up babies? Help me out if you can people...
Thanks
