I met a girl at a party, and by the end of the night she sucked my ****. She wanted sex but I told her no (i don't know why).
I intended to turn the one night stand into a multiple night stand, so I texted her a few days later saying we should get together for drinks. She agreed, I set a day (tonight) and everything went fine.
Earlier today she texted me "We still on for tonight" and then things got weird. She lives 15 minutes from me, and I was going to take her to a fun spot ten minutes from her place (so 25 from mine). I wanted to be sure she was cool with the distance between mine and her place for the future, and I wanted her car at my place so she would have to come back after the date. It doesn't make sense for her to drive to my place first, but I wanted her to do it anyway.
Here is the full convo:
Her: Hey we still on for tonight?
Me: Yea lets meet at my place at 9
Her: How about you pick me up at 9
Me: That doesn't make sense
(even though it makes perfect sense)
Her: Where are we going?
Me: I'm going to {place}
Her: ... ok fvck face. Have fun.
Me: You aren't coming with me?
Her: If you pick me up on the way...
Me: Ok i'll be there at 9. What's your address?
(I realized she was right about me picking her up first, but I didn't want to admit it).
She stopped texting me after that, and still didn't' give me the address.
I know saying "ok" was one of the stupidest things I could have done, but I did it because I THINK I can reverse the damage on the date.
But i'm also thinking about not going now.
Without changing anything that already happened, what would you do from here?
I intended to turn the one night stand into a multiple night stand, so I texted her a few days later saying we should get together for drinks. She agreed, I set a day (tonight) and everything went fine.
Earlier today she texted me "We still on for tonight" and then things got weird. She lives 15 minutes from me, and I was going to take her to a fun spot ten minutes from her place (so 25 from mine). I wanted to be sure she was cool with the distance between mine and her place for the future, and I wanted her car at my place so she would have to come back after the date. It doesn't make sense for her to drive to my place first, but I wanted her to do it anyway.
Here is the full convo:
Her: Hey we still on for tonight?
Me: Yea lets meet at my place at 9
Her: How about you pick me up at 9
Me: That doesn't make sense
(even though it makes perfect sense)
Her: Where are we going?
Me: I'm going to {place}
Her: ... ok fvck face. Have fun.
Me: You aren't coming with me?
Her: If you pick me up on the way...
Me: Ok i'll be there at 9. What's your address?
(I realized she was right about me picking her up first, but I didn't want to admit it).
She stopped texting me after that, and still didn't' give me the address.
I know saying "ok" was one of the stupidest things I could have done, but I did it because I THINK I can reverse the damage on the date.
But i'm also thinking about not going now.
Without changing anything that already happened, what would you do from here?