I have always felt alone and not happy...

[Jokerlsk]

Girls aren't needed for happiness man. Calls some friends and hang out. If you don't do that call some family up. Maybe a cousin or a brother would like to hang w/ you.

 

[ItsOnNow]

That's it. I haven't found internal happiness, only emptiness that I try to fill. This started a long time ago. I thought no girl's/freind's= loser, and it consumed me. I don't have many freinds, I have trust issues, after something that happened to me a year ago, I am still not over it. It was bad. I mean bad.

I haven't been trying to start some sort of routine to get out of this. That's what kills me the most. I could have changed, broken out of the shell, and gone after what I wanted so sooner. I'm gonna take a course of action.

 

[MikeYikes122]

You guys can thank capitalism for all this social depression and desperation.. Expect this to get alot worse too..

Did you really need to bold that? I know that is your whole schtick, but was that really necessary there?

 

[DonJuan11]

Thread Should Be Closed

 

[ItsOnNow]

Look, I know I haven't been in the best of moods, but I can't help it. I am trying to find a way out of this. I think it me be some sort of, oh i don't know, personality disorder, or lack of, I can be either the loud type, or quiet type, I think I fear people. I mean I can go out, but I always feel empty, out or at home. What is that called?

 

[DonGorgon]

Did you really need to bold that? I know that is your whole schtick, but was that really necessary there?

IT's a BOLD FACT that capitalism causes social depression it felt to me as though it bolded itself, almost like flexing its factual muscles so that those in denial would be forced to face it .... :nervous:

The most powerfully tactical thing about capitalism is that while it kills you you slowly it convinces you to love it more and more..:nervous:

Most people don't know it yet but capitalism is the most powerfully devastating form of slavery ever known to man...:nervous:

 

[Johnny_Kage]

That's it. I haven't found internal happiness, only emptiness that I try to fill. This started a long time ago. I thought no girl's/freind's= loser, and it consumed me. I don't have many freinds, I have trust issues, after something that happened to me a year ago, I am still not over it. It was bad. I mean bad.

I haven't been trying to start some sort of routine to get out of this. That's what kills me the most. I could have changed, broken out of the shell, and gone after what I wanted so sooner. I'm gonna take a course of action.

Okay you're either a troll or a pvssy. Either way, just go out and talk to girls! Stop posting!

Now, go!

 

[ItsOnNow]

It's these negative thoughts I always have. They always run through my head. I have anxiety/depression, I know, I qualify cause I have the symptoms. Alot if has just not been taking action, feelings of worthlessness, it is very overwhelming. Cause in my mind, you're either the " hot/bad boy all the chicks wanna bang" or you are just a nobody. Is this true? Or do I hold myself to some sort of unrealistic standard? Could looking at too much porn had an effect on me? Or is it just ya gotta sweet talk em?

 

[Vulnerability]

Don't listen to such advice itsonnow. Stay home as you want. YOU ARE STILL A MAN! You are nothing less.

These spacemonkeys know nothing!

 

[PrinceBeavis]

To the commies....:crackup:

 

[MikeYikes122]

IT's a BOLD FACT that capitalism causes social depression it felt to me as though it bolded itself, almost like flexing its factual muscles so that those in denial would be forced to face it .... :nervous:

The most powerfully tactical thing about capitalism is that while it kills you you slowly it convinces you to love it more and more..:nervous:

Most people don't know it yet but capitalism is the most powerfully devastating form of slavery ever known to man...:nervous:

:crazy:

 

[silkcru007]

You need to stop pouting... and APPROACH! APPROACH! APPROACH!

I dont wanna hear any excuses, go out and meet new people.

Also, visit the site below to get some knowledge..

 

[Rhoto]

Reposting this, well because you need it.

BE, so you can DO, then HAVE.


Be , as in BE PRESENT.

Be, as in BECOMING.

Be, as in BELIEF.

Be, as in BEING.


Focus on what is STOPPING you from feeling Good, and Happy, and Joyful.

What are these obstacles?
What issues are you dealing with?
are you even aware you are having difficulties seeing the positive side?
Why arent you seeing this as positive?

These are questions you must ask yourself.

If not, you let your subconscious, and all the primal subconscious fears do the acting and make your own sub beleif system.

You will operate from a paradigm of fear and irrational beliefs.

Your mind is a tool.
A way to interpret phenomena and experiences.
Your subconsious is a an influence HOW you PERCEIVE your 'reality'.
WHAT REALITY are YOU CREATING?




Watch this video, and pay attention at 1:10:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?d...&q=adyashanti&ei=vJpqSOHiJKem4QKDvPXKAg&hl=en

 

[ItsOnNow]

Yeah. I realize what I must do, but the problem seems to be comparing myself to others.

 

[DarthAngel707]

ItsOnNow,

Ask yourself this one question.

"What type of person would I have to be to respect myself?"

Your answers to this question are your VALUES and the closer your follow your values, the higher your self-confidence and eventually the higher your quality of life. Don't neglect doing this now, do it now or you'll never change.

Oh yeah, and only give advice if you have experience with that situation. On these forums, advice is given freely and sometimes not worth listening to.