Luke Skywalker
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Hello Friend,
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Thank you for visiting and have a great day!
I understand this, basically, people are just brushing you off, or giving you a 'hi and buy' cold shoulder rather than including you in their conversations or trying to engage you, and this is a Christian group - you'd expect that they would at least be a bit more social and inclusive. It's really shameful the way they have behaved and it's no wonder that people get disillusioned and just leave the church because most people there aren't taking a genuine interest in people outside the clique and social circle. Sometimes I can go to a church and feel so lost that I may as well be approaching strangers in a mall. Some people have this air about them or have these exclusive cliques.T|CK said:When gift giving was over, it was social time. I tried to strike up conversations with a lot of people, but no one seemed to want to talk to me. So, I stood back and watched everyone have fun and socialize. So, I got my gift and walked out. A couple of people seemed concerned and came after me, but I just didn't want to stay.
The OP makes claims he can get a woman and can get laid, so it can not be that bad. Unless he is the pastor's son, or everyone on there really knows him, no matter what the heck he does it is not going to make a difference.ExcelNPrevail said:Whats wrong with most of you guys? He asks for help and all you all give him is.
*Be a man
*Be a man
*Be a man
Seriously, you could tell a man to be more confident,calm,strong but that will have no effect. He already knows what to do. He just wants us to help aid him find an easier way. There is no short cut.
I wrote a post on why most of us come to be like this, It will be beneficial to you.
Have a read... http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154966
PS. Your not invisible....I wish I was..
I don't think so. The OP said he made lots of attempts to talk and connect with the people there, but it's like nobody had showed any genuine interest in him, at the very least to have a conversation or some connection. The only interest shown as a pity interest when a couple of people saw that he was basically rejected by the whole group and he had none of that.theunflushables said:If you ever feel like you're invisible and nobody cares, miss a few payments.
Skywalker, let's not blame the group. That's a cop out. "I'm just sitting here waiting for someone to talk to me and they're not, it's their fault!" No, sitting there and not talking with people will give off an air of arrogance. People will be looking at him thinking "Oh, look, he isnt interacting with us he must think he's better than us."
Read between the lines.T|CK said:Sorry about the title. I didn't check before I submitted it. It should say "I feel invisible".
We all understand but your apology's appreciated.
I just feel like no one likes me, and I guess that's the way I'll always feel. My own family doesn't care about me.
Respect and be confident in yourself.
I don't understand it.
Be more social. Google this sh*t. You will soon.
I'm a successful person,
You might be more focused on money as opposed to women. Be wary of golddiggers. Stop flaunting this if you are.
highly educated,
Women find book smarts boring these days. They don't teach you how to meet and attract women in college.
a extremely young looking 33,
You should have been more social starting at 13 and you wouldn't be going through this kind of sh*t. Most men like you at 33 are married or have girlfriends which means they have a social circle. Find a girlfriend if you can, quick! You can be introduced into social circles by the girl. It won't be easy, but keep looking.
attractive,
Are you sure? Right now, by the tone of your post, RIPLEY'S WOULDN'T EVEN BELIEVE THAT SH*T! :crackup:
but I'm invisible.
I do believe if getting any woman you could at any time was a superpower, I'd put that tactic on ebay and be a millionaire!:crackup: You're acting like the invisible woman from the fantastic four. Stop it.
No one cares, but me.
You better get out the house and get a life motherf**ker!!! That's a great start to gettting out of this slump.
It's heart breaking.
You'll get used to it...I think you're already there.
Too funny. I like that.theunflushables said:If you ever feel like you're invisible and nobody cares, miss a few payments.
Good post!slaog said:When I was in school I was the outsider. In a group I'd be the one on the outside listening to the others interactig with each other. I was the invisable man. I felt like nobody liked me. When people did talk to me it felt uncomfortable for me for some reason.
Looking back now I know what was happening. I was on the outside always waiting for somebody else to say something to me. I wanted them to include me. Read that again, I wanted them to include me. In other words I wanted them to give me something. This is also classic AFC behaviour.
What you must realise is that it's all up to you. Don't ever look for people for anything. Be happy with yourself and always look to give. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=150524