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I Feel Fvcking High on Life

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Let me just say, that I truly feel I’m at another level now. I am grasping so many different ideas, that I have tons and tons of tips to share with you guys - a few of them certainly are original. Therefore, rather than dump them all into one thread, I will post them separately.

To the guys who are looking for the one quick fix or tip or idea, this is not rocket science, but I will also not promise any thing to happen to you overnight. You need to put in effort, and if you are looking for a miracle, keep on dreaming...or rather, mentally masturbating over what panty-dropping opener to use :rolleyes:

So…this thread here may seem pointless because it does not exactly teach anything, but it is actually like a prelude to my proceeding tips, and it is somewhat like a field report, sort of…

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Anyhow, recently I am feeling much better than I have ever felt in my entire life! Honestly, I cannot begin to explicate my newfound happiness, and love for life/myself …it is all very very unreal.

I can’t really explain it, but it’s as though I can easily connect with others on a subconscious level; I literally feel high on life, and at times, like I am in a state of euphoria. You know when you feel “on,” and sometimes surprise yourself with your “game”? Well, it’s like I feel more than simply being “on,” and I feel it 24/7. Call me crazy because I feel like I seriously draw others to my presence, as if I am much more attractive, both physically and mentally, than I have ever been. I can feel the energy inside; I can sense an aura about myself.

I just can’t stop inspiring myself. (and this is one of the original ideas I will post a tip about)

Heck, I was going to sit down and write down a bunch of tips all in one thread, and I haven’t been able to. I was planning on staying home tonight (yes, I know it’s Friday, but I still have to study a ton)…but I couldn’t…first few minutes into writing, I just went out and on the way back, met this new dude. Talked with him for a bunch, then got back here. As soon as I was halfway through with writing, I get invited to this kick-ass party. Totally, cool. I had never been to a party like this before. Almost everyone there was of Spanish/Latin descent, and the girls were among the hottest girls I have ever seen in my life…they all looked like models. I’ve seen some of the pictures of girls you guys post here, and I definitely have some high standards…the girls here were like Hb11s …and no I was not drunk, this is before I even started drinking. You know Adriana Lima? Yeah, I'm pretty sure her even hotter twin sister was there...and she was eye-fcuking me...I didn't approach honestly, not because of any sort of fear but because I enjoyed watching her dance, and I enjoyed observing their intruiging culture. I only had one beer all night after that. It was a salsa/meringue house party…very neat cultural experience.

The really cool part was that everyone was so chill and friendly – or so it seemed to me. I mean, it felt like they were family, almost. I absolutely loved the atmosphere. I had never met such beautiful girls with personality…almost every girl I have ever met…it seems like there has always been a trade-off between physical beauty and personality …Latin women rock. Anyway…I mingled with a bunch of chill people and definitely clicked with this smoking Hb (got a few pecks, and she told me to call her literally 5 or 6 times…but two of my chump friends really wanted to go home, and they were so reluctant to even step inside the party…anti-social losers, really...I can't believe it...they're always complaining about not meeting women, and when the most beautiful women are right there, they do not stick around). I got a few numbers and left. I’ll be calling them and getting together for cool stuff like this more often.

This is what expanding your comfort zone is all about. It’s about doing stuff you had never done before, going to new places, meeting new people, etc., and just vibe and have a good time with everyone.

Can’t stop, won’t stop. I am really keeping it real right now; this is what the heck it’s all about.

The above is in addition to earlier today...a solid Hb8, Cuban chick approached me today...told me she had seen me the other day socializing with people, asked me my name, totally interested right off the bat, and the conversation just flowed very well...this is what happens when you live to the fullest and are an interesting person...people just want to be around you.

And after that I opened another cutie, and flirted with her a bit...didn't close her though. You want to know how I broke the ice? I was in the library, studying across from her, and some people at the other table were being noisy...I noticed she was agitated by this, and said "yeah, I can't wait until they leave either." Damn I'm good, LOL. You guys make this out to be complicated stuff, it's really not. You can say literally anything, just say something.

It's not luck, it's not just like it was a good day or nothing, everyday it just gets better and better, it's endless.

So, you can look forward to some detailed tips, which I will write then link to this post. I’ll try to post one of them tonight.

(For reliability purposes, and because I felt like getting one anyway, I ordered a sleek camera phone yesterday...I will finally be able to post pics. Not exactly publicly, but I will allow you to PM me and I will email them to you, or privately send you a link. I will post this stuff, but with over 17,000 members here, I'd like to keep my identity private, especially since posting pics without proper consent can have consequences)

I just feel like spreading this energy to others…it feels so ****ing good.
 
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haha, i'm really happy for you. i can't wait until when I can feel that in my life.
 

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I always think that before I can achieve this goal of "feeling high in life" i must get some objectives FIRST.

Like, must change my hair cut, must build more muscle, must get the cooler car that i want.

The list goes on in my mind , ensuring that when i get all those stuff, i will be in the state of high in life.


Does anyone feel me?
 

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Originally posted by Rogerman
I always think that before I can achieve this goal of "feeling high in life" i must get some objectives FIRST.

Like, must change my hair cut, must build more muscle, must get the cooler car that i want.

The list goes on in my mind , ensuring that when i get all those stuff, i will be in the state of high in life.


Does anyone feel me?
To be honest, I do feel what you're saying, I used to be like that.

But, let me also be honest in saying that there is no better time than now. I am slightly starting to bald, my hairline is definitely receding.

Muscle? :crackup: what muscle? Actually, nah, I'm pretty skinny...around 5'9" and 140lbs...far from having a defined body...

Car? I don't have one. Girls don't seem to mind.

The time is now...you will never have the same opportunities twice. You could die tomorrow. I know all of this sounds cliche, but I'm practically brain dead right now, I'll write more (better) later...
 

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It's great you're feeling that way, but enjoy it while you can. Not to take the wind out of your sails or anything, but it will fade.

A couple months ago I felt the same way, and now it's gone. I'm not depressed, hell no I'm not, but the "high" is gone. Just keep in mind that life is a series of hills and valleys, and in time the high will go away, like all "highs" tend to do.

Enjoy it, live your life to the fullest and it will eventually resurface, I'm sure. :cool:
 

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i noticed that if i stop beating off so much, i get this high, like maybe its hormones or somethin. but it feels pretty damn good. lol
 

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I want what you have, h2o; it's what we all need.

I hate being depressed and apathetic all the time. Even when I can get my mind to stop b!tching to me about how much I suck and how the world is out of my league, I still don't have the love for myself and life that I know I need in order to get off my ass and suffer for better.
 

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That's awesome h2o. Latin women are awesome! Sooo friendly.

It's empowering isn't it to no longer be afraid to approach hot girls.
 

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nice man. i'm sure all men aspire to feel the way you're feeling right now. you have to remember though, all great things come to an end, but it's what we make of them. sometimes things won't go as great as you plan, but it's how u react that makes all the difference. i respect you for letting out how you feel right now. i wish i can do & feel the same.
 

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things do not always go the way you want. from experience, that high wears off. unless you're entirely unique from all humans, you'll have that high forever. each day is a different one. things change. do not expect feeling that way all the time, because the moment when it starts to change, you'll know the high wore off.
 

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good for you man :D

keep it up.. i know exactly what you're talking about with having this whole aura around you.. it's a great feeling, don't ever let anything take you out of it.
 

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I agree with IL_duce. Life has its highs and lows. Im like you every so often...that go getter enthusiastic feeling. but there are days where im not in the feel good mood. From experience i can say this happens because well it's a self proclaiming prophecy which is like a cycle. You feel good and sociable around others and they will react the same towards you, thus fueling you're good mood even more. And because of that ppl will usually remember you for it and make you very likeable. There might be others who try to shoot you down, i would advise to stay away from those ppl who are in a bad mood. No point in bringing you down at their expense eh?

have fun and enjoy it while it lasts!
 

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I can sense, not just see, opportunities everywhere, and I snatch them up without blinking…sometimes so instinctually and smoothly that I blow my own mind…

I truly feel like I am in a different world from other people, specifically other guys. It’s like girls treat me different than them, and are just naturally drawn to flirt with me…other guys are nonexistent. I have this magnetic ball of energy within me and it’s growing. I don’t like relating life experiences/lessons to movies, but the best explanation can be made through the Matrix.

It is as if I am Neo, and everyone else is inside the Matrix. Everyone else is just in a different world…I truly feel like I am in a different world than others, every time I am outside, as I am in a completely different dimension…this is why I say it seems so unreal.

And my extreme happiness is because I am overjoyed to have reached this level where my interactions have become instinctually who I am.

I really feel like I was born to be playful/teasing/flirting with women, and I have simply been suppressing my true inner nature all these years. It really is effortless and without thought.

I don’t think of “approaching” girls…it is not even an “approach,” she’s just another girl.

My self-limiting beliefs have completely vanished. I feel free of any internal or external inhibitions from my own self-conscious, and no longer care for fear, failure, rejection, or what anyone thinks or ever thought. It’s as if I feel like I’ve truly broken the chains that once held me down, and I can finally soar to greater heights. It’s not just about being happy all the time…happiness comes and goes (like some of you say), but my love for life, and myself and loving the game of life to death will last forever.

I think a big part of it is… I have learnt to truly follow my heart…I do what is in my heart, not in my mind. I do what I feel, in my heart, and that’s probably why I defy logic, because logic is in the mind.
 

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Dam man, I'm feeling happier just reading your posts! :D I know exactly what you talk about, because I've felt the same. You feel like nothing can stop you. Everything's possible. Fück it's the greatest feeling isn't it?

But the problem for me atm is that feeling doesn't last very long. Maybe an hour, a night, a day, two days at most. But it's getting better. Pretty soon I hope to have it constantly like you do. :cheer:
 

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Congratulations H2O....Ive admined your posts..... I hope soon I too will reach the emotional state you are currently at. That is the difference between us.....Although, I can pick up and close most girls, be he alpha male, get respect.....I am still insecure inside....I find myself faking a lot.......not that anyone would know, but I rather be free of my inhibions and fears like yourself.
 

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Originally posted by Pfeile
Dam man, I'm feeling happier just reading your posts! :D I know exactly what you talk about, because I've felt the same. You feel like nothing can stop you. Everything's possible. Fück it's the greatest feeling isn't it?
Hey man, thanks...yeah, exactly! I feel practically unstoppable. :woo:

I think it was Casino that changed around the cliche 'live everyday like your last' and said "live every day like it is your first." Because when we were all little toddlers...those first days of our lives, we would be curious, fearless, and adventurous. I try to look at things that way. I also take a moment in my day to reflect on the previous days experiences...it gives me that extra boost when I get out of bed in the morning. And after that, every day is different, different opportunities, challenges, and new people to meet, etc. Just like my first days.

Smooth Player 056: Yeah, it's great that you can do all that...I think if you can do all that while somewhat feel like you are faking it, imagine how good you can be if/when you are doing it naturally. Good luck man...like I mentioned, try more to follow your heart if possible. Don't think as much and do what you feel.
 

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I get that Matrix feeling all the time too, as though the world isn't real and I only think it is. I feel like if I could just stop doing that, it would disappear and I would be free.
 
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