I’m a little embarrassed because my naiveté might come through a bit here, but I’d love to get others’ opinions:
I’ve always wondered how a lot of high-status males can date and **** so many girls without getting at least one pregnant. Obviously, there are cases when accidental pregnancies DO occur. Contraception is another obvious reason why this doesn’t happen more often. Even so, I’m surprised when I see celebrity bachelors, for example, who have dated many girls and not once had children. Guys like Leonardi di Caprio, Justin Timberlake, George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Tom Brady, rich entrepreneurs, etc, etc.. Now I know some of the guys I have mentioned have kids now, but this was only after they decided to settle down and get married.
I’m not sure if I lack a fundamental understanding of women’s nature, especially in the realm of evolutionary psychology. I understand the basic premise that women seek to pass on their genes by obtaining the highest quality male they can, which is often demonstrated by alpha traits.
So then why would girls be motivated to keep taking contraceptives, for example, when they land such a guy? I’ve seen instances of a high-status guy dating a girl for 6 months, 2 years, 3 years...and then they break it off without ever having kids. Would it not be in the girl’s best interests to try to lock him down by becoming pregnant? Am I underestimating the risk girls feel when getting pregnant? Am I underestimating how difficult it is to get a girl pregnant?
On a personal level, I think I sabotage my own dating and financial success due to a distorted view of dating. I have a distrust of girls and I operate under the subconscious belief that if I become too attractive, I’ll become a baby or provider “target.”
My game is actually pretty good, but I don’t close nearly as much as my skill-level because I have some underlying beliefs that hold me back.
I’ve always wondered how a lot of high-status males can date and **** so many girls without getting at least one pregnant. Obviously, there are cases when accidental pregnancies DO occur. Contraception is another obvious reason why this doesn’t happen more often. Even so, I’m surprised when I see celebrity bachelors, for example, who have dated many girls and not once had children. Guys like Leonardi di Caprio, Justin Timberlake, George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Tom Brady, rich entrepreneurs, etc, etc.. Now I know some of the guys I have mentioned have kids now, but this was only after they decided to settle down and get married.
I’m not sure if I lack a fundamental understanding of women’s nature, especially in the realm of evolutionary psychology. I understand the basic premise that women seek to pass on their genes by obtaining the highest quality male they can, which is often demonstrated by alpha traits.
So then why would girls be motivated to keep taking contraceptives, for example, when they land such a guy? I’ve seen instances of a high-status guy dating a girl for 6 months, 2 years, 3 years...and then they break it off without ever having kids. Would it not be in the girl’s best interests to try to lock him down by becoming pregnant? Am I underestimating the risk girls feel when getting pregnant? Am I underestimating how difficult it is to get a girl pregnant?
On a personal level, I think I sabotage my own dating and financial success due to a distorted view of dating. I have a distrust of girls and I operate under the subconscious belief that if I become too attractive, I’ll become a baby or provider “target.”
My game is actually pretty good, but I don’t close nearly as much as my skill-level because I have some underlying beliefs that hold me back.
