Some girls just don't do it. It happened to me yesterday, even thou we went and ate together and walked an hour together. She in the end said "I Dont give out my number to strangers". I answered with maximum confidence and persistence
Let me share my experience... So I'm going to my second examination in maths (I'm trying to get into medical school in sweden) and I meet this girl that I talked to at the first examination. (She is also trying for medical school). We are complete strangers but we recognized each other and started laughing. Seen each other a second time means we both failed the first examination haha.
Meanwhile two other girls join the room and ask if this is the right place and starts socializing. "Is this test hard, bla bla" and I started talking to them.
The girl feels a bit left out so she goes to the toilet. There after she sits by herself and starts to repeat math formulas in for the test. I leave the two girls and I sit beside her and do a little bit ****y and funny. Things like “ Thanks, now I have dropped my concentration. If I fail, you know that half my family will go and chase you down?” Both of us start laughing. From no were I saw some old friends, that I never expected also joining to the test. I turn myself to me friends and smile and we started talk about the summer vacation etc..
The door opens everyone goes in, she wishes me good luck and I answer with.. “wait for me after the test”. After the test she waits for me and I continued saying wait for me a little bit more. Just have to go to the toilet. She waits and we go together.
She was planning to go home when I suddenly
I said “WAIT”.
She “yea”
I said “I’m hungry keep me company”
She “WHaaa? I don’t know you?
I said “Burger king it is”
She “hahaha noo I really have to go”
I grab her arm and we go the opposite way. She said okey quickly. While walking toward burger king I met this girl I had gamed before. We start hugging and talking and I got her number, in front of the girl I was going to burger king with :O
(Can it be better? I have shown her that I’m comfortable with strangers. That I have girls attracted to me, have great guy friends and that I’m intelligent? This is like a dream scenario coming true)
We go to burger king, starts talking. She loves bollywood movies and she told me she is afraid of dogs, while going to the subway we met a old pair that had a dog. I approach them and forced the girl to clap the dog. After that she gets angry. (She is an Iraqian, religious girl. They mostly think that dogs are dirty). So she’s like “uhh you made my hand dirty”. We go to the subway and she is like, that’s my way bye bye.
I said “give me a hug?”
She “shake my dirty hand and maybe?”
I said “no”
She “bye bye”
I said “ give me your number!”
(note: it was not a question, more like a demand haha in an assertive way)
She “ sorry do not give out my number to strangers”
Here I started to think by myself, she knows my name. She kept my company and laughs at my jokes. So I continued.
I said “ give me your number!”
She “ You can get my msn?”
I said “ give me your number!”
She “I’m missing my train”
I said “ give me your number!”
She “I’m not going to answer if you call”
I said “ give me your number!”
Haha, okey she gives me her number I call her so it was real and then I gave her a hug and left
.
20 min later I text her “Now you can give me your msn
”
She answer after 2 freaking hours haha “To late”
I answered with “Oh, than I won’t send the link to the new bollywood movie “
As a summary, if she have spent some time with you and enjoyed it she will give you a number even thou you are a stranger. The thing you have to do is to be assertive, persistent and IF that is not possible. Never se it as a lost. My last effort I usually say this (it works also fantastic on online game) ”I’m offering you to get to know me in a win/win scenario. I have no time for playing games; I’m a man and my time I valuable. If you are not interested then Bye bye."
