Sup guys, I really need some help here I don't care if this is just about getting a good old fashion booty call but I need some assistance with another problem that's been killing me...
Alright, This girl came into my life (she approached me) about 5 months ago and we've been seeing eachother ever since... We're not officially dating, but it sure as hell seems like it because we talk/see eachother almost everyday. Her reason for not wanting to go out with me is because she already has a boyfriend, but the guy is going to school somewhere in asia for like 5 years, so she's kind of cheating on him with me... She claims that she loves the guy and that she talks to him everyday. The thing that's been killing me is that she says she doesn't know if she really likes me or not.... but she wants to stay my friend. I really like this chick and I want to go further with her. I don't consider myself an AFC with her because I always argue with her, i'm not always nice to her, and I've tapped that ass multiple times. She says that she "doesn't want to like me" because she wants to wait for her hubby to return and live happily ever after with him... Should I wait for her, is there a chance that she could really begin to like me? Or does she really have the ability to control whether or not she has any feelings for me?
please guys, i'm being torn apart with this
Alright, This girl came into my life (she approached me) about 5 months ago and we've been seeing eachother ever since... We're not officially dating, but it sure as hell seems like it because we talk/see eachother almost everyday. Her reason for not wanting to go out with me is because she already has a boyfriend, but the guy is going to school somewhere in asia for like 5 years, so she's kind of cheating on him with me... She claims that she loves the guy and that she talks to him everyday. The thing that's been killing me is that she says she doesn't know if she really likes me or not.... but she wants to stay my friend. I really like this chick and I want to go further with her. I don't consider myself an AFC with her because I always argue with her, i'm not always nice to her, and I've tapped that ass multiple times. She says that she "doesn't want to like me" because she wants to wait for her hubby to return and live happily ever after with him... Should I wait for her, is there a chance that she could really begin to like me? Or does she really have the ability to control whether or not she has any feelings for me?
please guys, i'm being torn apart with this