ChrizZ said:
The chicks I like have been rejecting me since kindergarten.
Thus this started the negative belief cycle. Some rejection in childhood.
ChrizZ said:
I believe it's just not meant for me to pull hot chicks.
If you believe something strong enough, then it may actually happen.
Sort of like the "Secret" concept.
The reason some guys have lots of success with girls is because they already have unconciously or subconciously accepted that they are successful and will continue to be successful since they give off the vibrations that reverberate such success and have a positive-loop. (Not necessary girls wanting what other girls want - that's a by-product of the positive-loop) While, other guys, such as yourself, and even myself, have a negative-loop, and our frequencies will result in scenerios which occur over and over again.
The key to is to change the frequency to change the results. According to the "Secret" - be thankful of every positive interaction - if you got a girl to laugh with you - be happy about that - whatever you get, and build from there. Visualise being successful and having women with you -- there are other techniques in that book as well.
Chrizz said:
Everyday I see even ugly guys having average to hot women as girlfriends and they act totally boring around them. I just don't know what else I could do to become better with women. Any ideas?
I hope you got a refund, or you got the Deangelo products for free since they have turned out to be a total flop. You are doing cold approaches through right? You dont know how these other guys meet these girls - it may not have been cold approaches.