How You Control Who Likes You.

[Warrior74]

http://www.spring.org.uk/2009/08/the-acceptance-prophesy-how-you-control-who-likes-you.php

 

[TheCWord]

Great post. Reminded me how cold I can be sometimes if I'm worried about acceptance. Will definitely be a warm, acceptance-expecting gent next time I'm out.

 

[plate's_empty]

I agree with this 100%. When I'm out by myself at a bar, I can make friends pretty quickly. I'm not sure how this theory would affect attraction with women though. There's plenty of guys who have girls hanging around them but it doesn't mean they're necessarily banging them.

 

[JohnChops]

you ever hear anyone here say "Assume she is attracted to you, assume attraction". I find that when i do this is reduces rejection and you are more loose and act more friendly towards the person you are trying to talk to.

 

[TheCWord]

you ever hear anyone here say "Assume she is attracted to you, assume attraction". I find that when i do this is reduces rejection and you are more loose and act more friendly towards the person you are trying to talk to.

Now, how to assume attraction and TRULY believe it? Just made a post about this in DJ discussion. Would be good to have you weigh in.

 

[Aubree]

I agree that when we think other people aren't going to like us, we behave more coldly and they don't like us as much.