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You called her out on her bad behavior by pointing it out and she says she understands, yet, the very next thing she says it is "something so small and stupid"? WTF! She accepts no responsibility. She said she agreed, then cancels it out by making that moronic statement.AFC_Schism said:I just told her that her actions said something different. She says that she understands how bad this looks and that she's so sorry that something so small and stupid had to ruin this great relationship we had. I told her that I can never trust her again and that I need a higher quality woman ?
Exactly, your absolutely right.AFC_Schism said:Even if she didn't cheat on me, that breach of trust, her lying to my face, and her shady behavior especially about a guy I feel still warranted me breaking it off with her, right?
You are assuming that the definition and application of "controlling and possessive" is a woman's perogative. It is not - YOU decide what is decent male behavior, NOT women.Weezy said:What says it all? How does a dude set boundaries as to what is acceptable and what isn't when it comes to guy friends without being controlling / jealous and possessive?
Harsh, but it may just do the trick !boomerick said:Everytime you have a moment of weakness or lonelines or doubt yourself or think you want to forgive her or that maybe you overreacted or maybe you should give it one more try or make that one last phone call......sit down..... close your eyes.....think of her......imagine her .....beautiful, alluring, sexy perfect, your soulmate.......slurpin down other dudes c*ck while she looks up at him and wantonly smiles because it's him she's currently ingesting past her tonsils and not you .......that image should get you through.
It's pretty evident her ego is hurt, and nothing more. Congratulations for doing the right thing.AFC_Schism said:,it's pretty evident how much she cared about me.
Perfectly normal to feel this way.AFC_Schism said:Man, its hard not thinking about her. I'm finding myself missing her and feeling almost heartsick for her.
Go out & date other girls, RIGHT NOW. I went on a lot of dates straight after my last relationship (which I ended) and it really helped.AFC_Schism said:How can I get her out of my mind quicker and make me stop regretting breaking up with her?
Scarcity mentality at its finest - I believed that too many years ago, then I noticed a quality girl will change to fit a man's needs.AFC_Schism said:now I'm feeling like I'll never find a girl as unique as her
Quit chasing ghosts. For starters, a quality girl must be into you - no need for an ice princessJ. Darko said:But quality girls are scarce. I knew one, but five years later, it's still the only one I've met. There are practically no HB 10's with a great charactar. And if you happen to meet one, you still have chance of getting into a realtionship with her.