StuartScott x 2
Senior Don Juan
Haven't done one of these How To's in a while
*Man I wish my gym had a basketball court, cuz I'd be the MAN, never mind, I already am*
When you go to the gym, try to befriend all the co workers (front desk, trainers, cashiers, etc..) At the gym. Especially the ladies. I've done this and the social proof is through the roof. Luckily at my gym, ALL (not almost all, but ALL) the lady employees look good.
Like I think it's to the point that when I go to the gym nowadays, I could get away with not being a member and being allowed to go in the gym for free just cuz I'm cool with almost everyone there.
Here are a few lines that I've used at my gym that have worked.
-The "Workout music" line.
Ok say you're working out upstairs and the music they are playing is lame as fukk. I'm talking Britney Spears or Mariah Carey or some b/s.
When you're leaving the gym, act all pissed off and stuff and go to the front desk and talk to the nice looking receptionist and be like "say what's up with that music ya'll playing. How can I get a good workout listening to some N'sync or Britney Spears, you need to do something about the music ya'll playing."
This same line can be used when working out and you see a good looking girl working out. Try and position yourself near or around her, like it's just a coincidence that your near her and when you two stop and take your little rest break at the same time, say something like "what's with this workout music....."
Instant rapport baby.
-The "How's your workout going" line.
Self explanatory right there. If you see a girl, do what I said above then say that line. After that, you can go into, the fluff talk, ya know, stuff like "How often do you workout," "What are your goals", bla bla bla, ya know the usual.
-The "you work late" line
Another line to be used on those front desk bunnies.
Say you go to the gym late at night on some days, like 9, 10 pm, and you always notice that one girl there working late. You say something like "do you always work this late?", then follow up with a "don't you have school early in the morning," she'll either say yeah or no, if yes, just follow up with something like "I'm surprised work doesn't effect your schoolwork" or something,
-The "Can you spot me" line
Ohhh yeeahhh. I like this one. First when you use this one on a gal, DO NOT try and lift a weight that you would actually need help being spotted on. Do it with a weight you know you can get. Ok say ya got 225 on a bench (that in itself will impress a girl)and you're sitting there looking for a spotter, you spot a girl about to walk past ya or just not doing anything. Say to her "excuse me miss, can you spot me real quick." she'll spot you, then on the last lift, struggle to get it, then finally get it up with her help. Afterwards, say something cute like "you know, that was all you cuz I barely got that up" or something. Before you start macking on her, make sure her man isn't near by b/c some girls just go to the gym to look good with their man.
-The "How come girls wear such tight pants when working out line"
Funny line I used once
-The "you look like you don't wanna be here" line-
I actually used this line once and it (surprisingly) bombed. The only reason though, b/c the girl is a biitch. This girl just has this biitchy attitude to her and I haven't cracked her shell yet but it's a good line to use on a girl that looks like she "doesn't wanna be here." I used it on the girl and she gave a litle fake laugh and said "tired." That was it. I think I'm gonna be able to crack her shell thogh, b/c my social proof is so high it's ridiculous. Lately she's been seeing me talking to all the other gals there and I know she sees this. Like yesterday, I kind of interrupted her and this other girls convo at the front desk by saying something smart...matter of fact here's what happened.
*I'm getting ready to leave but they have this thing where if you borrow a towel, you have to give the front desk your card, so I walk up to the desk and they just keep talking, after about 10 seconds the biitch goes*
"Can I help you sir"
Me- *Ignore her, talk directly to the other girl* yeah, I was just wondering, ya know maybe before thanksgiving, if I could get my card back
Other girl starts laughing, I say something smart, she's laughing, so were talking while the biitch is just looking the part just standing there waiting for her to finish with me, she finally says, just give him his card in a quiet tone (it was funny. One of these days I'm gonna crack her shield by negging her BAD)
-The "Scan your own card" move. Say you walk in and no one is at the desk for a second, pick up the little gun on the other side and scan your own card. I did this once and this one girl started fighting with me to get the gun away from me, instant rapport baby.
"Just say Hi" line-
When you walk in the gym or are walking from your car and are about to pass a girl up, or when you enter the gym and see a pretty coworker, just wave and say "how's it going" and thne build up on that the next time you see her.
If you see them everyday and are just scared to approach, go ask them dumb questions that you may know the answer to. It makes you more comfortable the more you talk to them, like ask $hit like "uh do you know how to test for bodyfat," (obviously, she's just the front desk girl) but if you have some good convo skills, you can turn that into a short convo.
The "what's up with the dudes in the guys locker room" line-
Make up some b/s story about how the guys have no shame, like "you know what just happened to me, I'm in the locker room looking in the mirror and this butt naked guy just comes up and starts talking to me and he's like in my personal space bare ass nekkid asking me about some workout I did"
Please do not attempt to pick a girl up by trying to correct a workout she's doing, it's so lame and I just laugh when guys do this. One time I was just sitting after doing a bench exercise and I see some girl doing squats on a smith machine, some loser goes up there and just stares at her doing her whole fukking set then trys to correct her saying "ya know, your doing that all wrong" Just don't do this, I wouldn't
Building rapport with the ladies that work there is gold, it's now to the point that they usually say something smart or funny to me before I notice them like I was planning my next workout in the lobby and this girl comes up to me saying "this isn't the place for studying, take that to the library" There are at least 7 there that I'm totally cool with, a couple I barely see or talk too and 1 whose just a biitch. Think about it, going to work is boring enough, you're always gonna look to do something that interests you while your on the job. I always get into convos with them.
The "How was your workout" line-
Self explanatory. Works on girls you have seen just finish working out or when you are in line to get a shake, you can use that line there also.
I'm good enuff to tell if a gal is interested right off the bat after my first words to her so if you see a girl doesn't seem interested, don't waste your time and basically just treat them like a regular person, if they like you, sooner or later, they'll come around and start to act different aroudn you, ESPECIALLY when they see your social proof. (Social proof is gold friends)
The guys are cool. It's good to build rapport with the guys but there are a couple that fukking hate me prolly because they notice me always talking to the ladies that work there or talking to the girls upstairs working out. It's so funny b/c I actually catch this guy that works there always sneaking nasty looks at me. I don't care too much for that guy either, he thinks he's a fukking pimp just cuz he's a trainer and gets to work with a lot of ladies, nigga that's your job to train them, it ain't like your acting gong ot of your comfort zone to talk to ‘em. Also if your cool with some of the guys, they'll tell whose a freak and what not and one guy I know gives me great deals on the supplements they sell there. I'm talking 50-75% off.
Try to always borrow a towel from the front desk. Therefore upon entering or leaving the gym, when you have to get your membership card back, you can spring up a convo with the lady there.
Also, don't be one of the guys that has some hard ass tough guy look 100% of the time, loosen up, that look isn't too inviting.
Getting the number is self explanatory. I don't think you need my hep on that part. Usually if a convo is going smoothly for 3-5 minutes, you can say something like "hey, after your done working out, why don't we get some shakes and talk some more" (they have this shake parlor downstairs at my gym. Or "why don't I get your number so we can work out together one of these days"
My gym is so first class. Split level duplex with a swimming pool, lobby, juice bar, every single workout there is to man. In a high class neighborhood. 24 Hour fitness. Beautiful ass coworkers. It has everything except a basketball court and the one that has a b-ball court is like a half hour from where I live somewehre near the ghetto.
I know there are some more lines I've used but I just can't think of all of them and this post is long enough.
Heres the bottom line though, don't go to the gym just to pickup girls, go there to work your ass off. That's what I do, girls are secondary.
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StuartScott x 2 AKA StuartScott
*Man I wish my gym had a basketball court, cuz I'd be the MAN, never mind, I already am*
When you go to the gym, try to befriend all the co workers (front desk, trainers, cashiers, etc..) At the gym. Especially the ladies. I've done this and the social proof is through the roof. Luckily at my gym, ALL (not almost all, but ALL) the lady employees look good.
Like I think it's to the point that when I go to the gym nowadays, I could get away with not being a member and being allowed to go in the gym for free just cuz I'm cool with almost everyone there.
Here are a few lines that I've used at my gym that have worked.
-The "Workout music" line.
Ok say you're working out upstairs and the music they are playing is lame as fukk. I'm talking Britney Spears or Mariah Carey or some b/s.
When you're leaving the gym, act all pissed off and stuff and go to the front desk and talk to the nice looking receptionist and be like "say what's up with that music ya'll playing. How can I get a good workout listening to some N'sync or Britney Spears, you need to do something about the music ya'll playing."
This same line can be used when working out and you see a good looking girl working out. Try and position yourself near or around her, like it's just a coincidence that your near her and when you two stop and take your little rest break at the same time, say something like "what's with this workout music....."
Instant rapport baby.
-The "How's your workout going" line.
Self explanatory right there. If you see a girl, do what I said above then say that line. After that, you can go into, the fluff talk, ya know, stuff like "How often do you workout," "What are your goals", bla bla bla, ya know the usual.
-The "you work late" line
Another line to be used on those front desk bunnies.
Say you go to the gym late at night on some days, like 9, 10 pm, and you always notice that one girl there working late. You say something like "do you always work this late?", then follow up with a "don't you have school early in the morning," she'll either say yeah or no, if yes, just follow up with something like "I'm surprised work doesn't effect your schoolwork" or something,
-The "Can you spot me" line
Ohhh yeeahhh. I like this one. First when you use this one on a gal, DO NOT try and lift a weight that you would actually need help being spotted on. Do it with a weight you know you can get. Ok say ya got 225 on a bench (that in itself will impress a girl)and you're sitting there looking for a spotter, you spot a girl about to walk past ya or just not doing anything. Say to her "excuse me miss, can you spot me real quick." she'll spot you, then on the last lift, struggle to get it, then finally get it up with her help. Afterwards, say something cute like "you know, that was all you cuz I barely got that up" or something. Before you start macking on her, make sure her man isn't near by b/c some girls just go to the gym to look good with their man.
-The "How come girls wear such tight pants when working out line"
Funny line I used once
-The "you look like you don't wanna be here" line-
I actually used this line once and it (surprisingly) bombed. The only reason though, b/c the girl is a biitch. This girl just has this biitchy attitude to her and I haven't cracked her shell yet but it's a good line to use on a girl that looks like she "doesn't wanna be here." I used it on the girl and she gave a litle fake laugh and said "tired." That was it. I think I'm gonna be able to crack her shell thogh, b/c my social proof is so high it's ridiculous. Lately she's been seeing me talking to all the other gals there and I know she sees this. Like yesterday, I kind of interrupted her and this other girls convo at the front desk by saying something smart...matter of fact here's what happened.
*I'm getting ready to leave but they have this thing where if you borrow a towel, you have to give the front desk your card, so I walk up to the desk and they just keep talking, after about 10 seconds the biitch goes*
"Can I help you sir"
Me- *Ignore her, talk directly to the other girl* yeah, I was just wondering, ya know maybe before thanksgiving, if I could get my card back
Other girl starts laughing, I say something smart, she's laughing, so were talking while the biitch is just looking the part just standing there waiting for her to finish with me, she finally says, just give him his card in a quiet tone (it was funny. One of these days I'm gonna crack her shield by negging her BAD)
-The "Scan your own card" move. Say you walk in and no one is at the desk for a second, pick up the little gun on the other side and scan your own card. I did this once and this one girl started fighting with me to get the gun away from me, instant rapport baby.
"Just say Hi" line-
When you walk in the gym or are walking from your car and are about to pass a girl up, or when you enter the gym and see a pretty coworker, just wave and say "how's it going" and thne build up on that the next time you see her.
If you see them everyday and are just scared to approach, go ask them dumb questions that you may know the answer to. It makes you more comfortable the more you talk to them, like ask $hit like "uh do you know how to test for bodyfat," (obviously, she's just the front desk girl) but if you have some good convo skills, you can turn that into a short convo.
The "what's up with the dudes in the guys locker room" line-
Make up some b/s story about how the guys have no shame, like "you know what just happened to me, I'm in the locker room looking in the mirror and this butt naked guy just comes up and starts talking to me and he's like in my personal space bare ass nekkid asking me about some workout I did"
Please do not attempt to pick a girl up by trying to correct a workout she's doing, it's so lame and I just laugh when guys do this. One time I was just sitting after doing a bench exercise and I see some girl doing squats on a smith machine, some loser goes up there and just stares at her doing her whole fukking set then trys to correct her saying "ya know, your doing that all wrong" Just don't do this, I wouldn't
Building rapport with the ladies that work there is gold, it's now to the point that they usually say something smart or funny to me before I notice them like I was planning my next workout in the lobby and this girl comes up to me saying "this isn't the place for studying, take that to the library" There are at least 7 there that I'm totally cool with, a couple I barely see or talk too and 1 whose just a biitch. Think about it, going to work is boring enough, you're always gonna look to do something that interests you while your on the job. I always get into convos with them.
The "How was your workout" line-
Self explanatory. Works on girls you have seen just finish working out or when you are in line to get a shake, you can use that line there also.
I'm good enuff to tell if a gal is interested right off the bat after my first words to her so if you see a girl doesn't seem interested, don't waste your time and basically just treat them like a regular person, if they like you, sooner or later, they'll come around and start to act different aroudn you, ESPECIALLY when they see your social proof. (Social proof is gold friends)
The guys are cool. It's good to build rapport with the guys but there are a couple that fukking hate me prolly because they notice me always talking to the ladies that work there or talking to the girls upstairs working out. It's so funny b/c I actually catch this guy that works there always sneaking nasty looks at me. I don't care too much for that guy either, he thinks he's a fukking pimp just cuz he's a trainer and gets to work with a lot of ladies, nigga that's your job to train them, it ain't like your acting gong ot of your comfort zone to talk to ‘em. Also if your cool with some of the guys, they'll tell whose a freak and what not and one guy I know gives me great deals on the supplements they sell there. I'm talking 50-75% off.
Try to always borrow a towel from the front desk. Therefore upon entering or leaving the gym, when you have to get your membership card back, you can spring up a convo with the lady there.
Also, don't be one of the guys that has some hard ass tough guy look 100% of the time, loosen up, that look isn't too inviting.
Getting the number is self explanatory. I don't think you need my hep on that part. Usually if a convo is going smoothly for 3-5 minutes, you can say something like "hey, after your done working out, why don't we get some shakes and talk some more" (they have this shake parlor downstairs at my gym. Or "why don't I get your number so we can work out together one of these days"
My gym is so first class. Split level duplex with a swimming pool, lobby, juice bar, every single workout there is to man. In a high class neighborhood. 24 Hour fitness. Beautiful ass coworkers. It has everything except a basketball court and the one that has a b-ball court is like a half hour from where I live somewehre near the ghetto.
I know there are some more lines I've used but I just can't think of all of them and this post is long enough.
Heres the bottom line though, don't go to the gym just to pickup girls, go there to work your ass off. That's what I do, girls are secondary.
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StuartScott x 2 AKA StuartScott
