how to tell her that I want to have sex

[big_jeffry]

Ok, i'm 19 and we've been dating for 5 months and she's a virgin as am I and we've been to 2nd base on many occasions. How do I tell her without forcing her that I am and I think that we are ready to have sex?

 

[Heart Break Kid]

How's your kino? I think the message it sends is pretty clear.

 

[joekerr31]

you dont ask. you slide your hand in her pants and start fingering her.

if she's fine with this, then you get her clothes off and bang the pudding out of her.

 

[big_jeffry]

so you're saying if she lets me finger her, she will more than likely let me bang her

 

[Mctwist4]

No. You have to work up to it. In all of the relationships I've been in there is a timeline: Feeling up, Finger/HJ, Oral, Innercourse.

 

[~attrACTION~]

you dont ask. you slide your hand in her pants and start fingering her.

I thought that fingering is second base. If not, can someone please clarify the bases?

 

[joekerr31]

so you're saying if she lets me finger her, she will more than likely let me bang her

if she lets you fingerbang her im sure she'll be ok with you penisbang her also.

 

[joekerr31]

I thought that fingering is second base. If not, can someone please clarify the bases?

base 1 - kissing
base 2 - feeling her up (boobs)
base 3 - everything but penetration
home run - sex
grand slam - she sucks your wang after you've been in her OR she asks you to blow your load on her face.

but then again, im in my 30s, the bases might have changed with the younger crowd.

 

[killbill]

base 1 - kissing
base 2 - feeling her up (boobs)
base 3 - everything but penetration
home run - sex
grand slam - she sucks your wang after you've been in her OR she asks you to blow your load on her face.

but then again, im in my 30s, the bases might have changed with the younger crowd.

lmao I like the grand slam idea lmao.