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TheMale

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hello people,

last thursday night i was out and a chick wanted to pick me up
long short story she wanted a relationship, told her i wasnt ready, she got it and tonight she just sent me a message
her: what do you think about friend with benefits ?
me: thought about it but wanna make sure youre note doing it so you can be kinda with me
her: no just benefites

so basically its my second sex friend, you can ask: so why do i opened this thread ?
thing is my first and i eont live in the aame country so im seeing her only once a year so its not really a problemw when i see her 3 time in august

i wanna know: how to deal with it?
what is the guideline or rule i need to aply to not make her want this relationship thing or not just destroy the friendship?
what fun things can we do together?
and how to set up with her or explain her the rules and the way its gonne be ?

thx guys
 

Viagra4Soul

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TheMale said:
what fun things can we do together?
Bullsh1t - you wanna brag, which is why you posted this trite crap.

What fun things do you THINK you can do together when you see each other?... for chris-sakes... what is this world coming to.... :trouble:
 

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You dont live in the same country, see eachother only a few times a year, yet are asking us what fun things you can do with a chick you dont want to have get attached to you...


Sound the troll alert.
 

TheMale

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i see tge first one only few times a year
the second one (one from yesterday) live in my hometown so im gonna see her a lot

when i said fun things i meant yeah its for sex but while we are in
bed together what fun things can i do ?
its not a ***** so im not gonna go to her place **** and come back home i will feel like a man *****
i know that when i was i was in a relationship and i was in bed with my ex i did a lot of funny thing with her that gave us a serious laugh

oh maybe the problem is that i said fun instead of funny ?

btw im not penetrating due to a religiois point of view but im doing all the pre sex
and i want that friendship remain a secret (no one have to know whats going on in my life)
how do i let her know and talk to her abour these 2 last things ?
 
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AlexDP

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TheMale said:
i see tge first one only few times a year
the second one (one from yesterday) live in my hometown so im gonna see her a lot

when i said fun things i meant yeah its for sex but while we are in
bed together what fun things can i do ?
its not a ***** so im not gonna go to her place **** and come back home i will feel like a man *****
i know that when i was i was in a relationship and i was in bed with my ex i did a lot of funny thing with her that gave us a serious laugh

oh maybe the problem is that i said fun instead of funny ?

btw im not penetrating due to a religiois point of view but im doing all the pre sex
and i want that friendship remain a secret (no one have to know whats going on in my life)
how do i let her know and talk to her abour these 2 last things ?
A religiois reasons. I get that. Religioin is very important. Moron.
 

TheMale

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why are you even commenting if its to say dumb sh!t ?!

religion is important for me so respect that
i opened this thred to asked some help about something i dont know, and all i get is some duch who think they re funny with their comment.

get the hell outta my thread and let some mature people help me !
 
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