How to quit ?

[AlexTheGreat]

I went on 4 dates with this chick, heavy make-out and some more, but she doesn't interest me anymore. How should I go about "stopping" with her ? Just not call her anymore ? There's nothing serious between us (obviously, after 4 dates ... lol), so is it necessary to "talk to her about it", or would she get the actions alone ?

 

[Zod]

Well if you are looking for a LTR then just stop seeing her.

But if you are in it for some action, then stick with her.

Could you also expand a bit on your post? If you are in it for action, it looks like shes interested, so why not continue?

 

[Plane]

He's not interested, it does it matter why.

I know some girls get pissed if you jst stop calling them instead of telling them you don't want to go out anymore. Don't call and if she calls you tell her you don't want to go out anymore.

 

[Zod]

Right but if he wasn't interested, why did he date her on 4 seperate occasions? Need some clarification.

 

[aftershock]

Originally posted by Zod
Right but if he wasn't interested, why did he date her on 4 seperate occasions? Need some clarification.

It can take a few dates to decide if you do or don't like someone. I think the questions academic.

Just be honest, thats what I say. LJBF her if you're feeling a bit chicken.

 

[Zod]

Originally posted by aftershock
It can take a few dates to decide if you do or don't like someone. I think the questions academic.

Just be honest, thats what I say. LJBF her if you're feeling a bit chicken.

What's he after though? A LTR, or a physical one?

 

[aftershock]

Originally posted by Zod
What's he after though? A LTR, or a physical one?

Doesn't matter. The fact is he doesn't want it.