How to not get clingy... the easy method...

[Jack-Torrance]

Okay, this is only if you are not going out with the girl! (Unless you want to be a cheater that is)


Okay here is a small scenario if you like...

You are totally attracted to one girl, you think that if the girl doesn't like you back, you will never find anyone like her. You feel such a strong want for them that you try extra hard to be around them and talk to them, and this builds and builds until you are, you guessed it... A CLINGER!


This is my way of preventing it and it is quite easy...

MEET OTHER WOMEN

If you want to meet hot girls go to nightclubs they are everywhere!
And the more girls you are going for, THE LESS YOU CARE ABOUT THEM INDIVIDUALLY!

THE LESS YOU CARE ABOUT THEM INDIVIDUALLY, THE LESS CLINGY YOU ARE!!!

Here is the new scenario...

You like all of the girls, if one doesn't like you, you will be bummed, but not much, because you have another group of hot girls who you can go for and you will easily forget her in less than a day because she matters a lot less!

See how this works? No more being a cling on if you can do this! (Unless you are truly in love, which in most cases, the person you are truly in love with will truly love you!)

Have fun!

 

[happymeal88]

Exactly. Don't get involved with just one girl until you have already started dating. Keep your options open and try to meet as many girls as you can. That way if you meet one girl and she rejects you you can turn around and say "whatever" because you have other girls to turn to.

This goes for life in general, though. Do not just get involved with one group of friends, try and meet as many people as you can. In the real world it's called networking and by doing so you can assure yourself that you will always be able to find something to do, whether professionaly or for fun.

Plus, meeting new people at your school gives you instant social proof because you will be able to walk up and down the halls and be able to greet and talk to people the whole time. That makes you the alpha, not the beta.



Great post Jack-T... now it is just up to the kids to take advantage of it.

 

[Jack-Torrance]

nice link mr_elor that was quite a useful thread!

 

[Charm&Style]

you must be a rocket scientist to come up with such a solution...

bravo