Well because I don't have any male friends at all.yyc12 said:why do you want male friends??
That seems very strange, don't you think?
And future potential girlfriend would find that to be strange too.
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Well because I don't have any male friends at all.yyc12 said:why do you want male friends??
Thanks, but you are too far away. I need some friends in Chicago.SamTheHobit said:Bro ill be your friend.
you are acting like a faggot... have you noticed the soccer team guys avoiding you in the showers, or taking guard in the locker rooms? :crackup:TheLoner said:Thanks, but you are too far away. I need some friends in Chicago.
I tried to make friends with more of the guys from my soccer team today,
Ray and Kenneth, I asked them if they would like to chill with me at a bar.
They both looked me kind of strange, and patted me on the back saying "That's good for you buddy".
So they completely avoided my question and end up saying stuff like that. I don't understand why guys don't want to be my friend.
Won't that make me look even more foolish than I already am?Brosy said:It sounds like Ray and Kenneth disrespected you, next soccer practice say you want to practice slide tackles and target them.
The soccer manager might say "NO SLIDE TACKLES!" but just say "huh?" Like you didn't hear and do it anyway.
Remember, nobody ever got a red card just in training.
He was kidding dude. If you didn't know that you need better people skills. If you did know that and were joking you need to dial the self-deprecating back a bit because it sounds sad.TheLoner said:Won't that make me look even more foolish than I already am?
I am already the loner. I don't want to look like the crazy loner.
To be fair. I actually thought he was serious too..pmsl.FairShake said:He was kidding dude. If you didn't know that you need better people skills. If you did know that and were joking you need to dial the self-deprecating back a bit because it sounds sad.
Don't listen to these fvckin douche bags.The whole frame of mind here is fu-cked. Stop worrying about friends, worry about yourself. Play harder, dress better, stop being such a homo. Friends and women will follow you if you are worth following.
Great Advice LiveFreeX, is it easier to make friends in China than it is in America?LiveFreeX said:Don't listen to these fvckin douche bags.
I collect friends like crazy, I'll talk to just about anybody on the subway or the street, get a phone number and email and bring them into my circle as fast as possible. Strength in numbers right bro. I think about it like creating a network of people as fast as possible. Get Settler's Of Catan and a few other board games, buy an XBOX 360 and a 3D big screen tv, get Dungeons & Dragons, buy some Magic Cards. Setup a place at your house with a few bean bag couches around a table, some place that would be super comfortable to hang out, throw some beers in the fridge. Whenever we need a job or some hookups, we always consult the circle, my dad ran his business just like this.
Done. You have a fvckin man cave. Then start talking to people on the street. To be honest, these guys on your soccer team sound like huge faggots. If you had asked me if I would like to hang out, I woulda said hells yeah! We have about 7 or 8 guys here where we regularly get together for board games night, bar/club night, video games night. Life can't ALL be about attracting women... that part of you fades away when you get married anyway, and eventually you desire male relationships. Women, although very nice to have, can't appreciate the beauty of war machines and fighting styles, talk about anything political, have in depth discussions about the future of space or business.. When I get together with some of my friends, we build stuff or talk about starting small businesses. women are there to be ****ed and take care of family, they don't provide much mental stimulation. If you are looking for some friends locally, go sign up for the freemasons (is that against code? I can't remember...fvck it) Usually during guys night, they bring their dates, wives and girlfriends and the girls go have a bit of a girls shopping night or sometimes they play games with us... they go into the background and do their girl stuff. I live in China btw so things are different here and foreigners are more likely to reach out to each other and create networks. On a side note, I once asked a guy here if he wanted to hang out and he said he didn't have time and wasn't very interested, later on I learned he was 'bi'.
You are not crazy k, the guys on this forum are just friendless losers, most of them.
Well, it might be, but just tell women that you don't connect with the guys you meet. How can that be your fault? As someone else said, friendships (and all relationships for that matter), need to be organic; it can't happen just because you want it to. Think about it: do you even like the dudes on your soccer team? Do you even have things in common with them other than soccer? Do you even talk to any one of them more than the others?TheLoner said:Well because I don't have any male friends at all.
That seems very strange, don't you think?
And future potential girlfriend would find that to be strange too.
this thread still has legs, brilliant!TheLoner said:Won't that make me look even more foolish than I already am?
I am already the loner. I don't want to look like the crazy loner.