irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
Every time I get into one, I am always the one who gets hurt. I never done the hurting or dumping. I broke it off with girls in the past but that was after 2-3 dates, nothing serious. Every time I get into a serious relationship I get hurt and hurt and whine and b*tch and feel depressed, sad and mad for 5-7 months after.
It started a trend me in me that I am just flat out developed a phobia of being in a relationship with a girl because I hate going through that hurt stage crap over and over again. Its like the worst thing in the world, I been shot and stabbed before and I would rather re-live those 2 experiences put together on any given day then go through getting hurt by a girl.
And for your information I am not a nice guy, actually a classic A-hole by nature.
This is not a thread where I say all women are evil. This is not a thread saying I cant get girls. This is a thread that says I cant hold down relationships. After my last breakup I finally read the DJ Bible, it helped somewhat but I want to hear it from some of you. I always seem to fail in the relationship stage.
Last girl: was too distant from her, had too much going on during the time we were together, she breaks up. I realize how much I like her after she is gone, bust out all that gay p*ssy stuff and according to the DJ bible I further drive her away.
Girl before that: Long story short, after we went out, I got too attached to her and for some reason turned to a nice guy-that is not the explanation she gave me but after reading DJ bible and looking back, I am sure thats what it was.
And before that: Went out for 7 months, everything seemed to be fine. We hung out and had fun on dates, banged...etc...did all the normal stuff. Still ended up with her telling me she was going through something(when in reality she was not so I never got the real reason why she broke it off)
There is actually 2 more but you guys get the point.
I banged all the girls above, so before you guys ask.
I can never seem to do it right. And now when I get too close to girls I brake it off early because I dont want to go through the above process again.
My main question is once you get into a relationship what do you do to keep it?
How often do you hit the girl up?
How often to see her and hang out?
How to let her know you are into her without becoming a nice guy and telling her all that sweet crap?
And I thought from all the movies I seen and what girls say...they like hearing that sweet crap?
Any help would be nice I just want to overcome this fear of hoping into a relationship
It started a trend me in me that I am just flat out developed a phobia of being in a relationship with a girl because I hate going through that hurt stage crap over and over again. Its like the worst thing in the world, I been shot and stabbed before and I would rather re-live those 2 experiences put together on any given day then go through getting hurt by a girl.
And for your information I am not a nice guy, actually a classic A-hole by nature.
This is not a thread where I say all women are evil. This is not a thread saying I cant get girls. This is a thread that says I cant hold down relationships. After my last breakup I finally read the DJ Bible, it helped somewhat but I want to hear it from some of you. I always seem to fail in the relationship stage.
Last girl: was too distant from her, had too much going on during the time we were together, she breaks up. I realize how much I like her after she is gone, bust out all that gay p*ssy stuff and according to the DJ bible I further drive her away.
Girl before that: Long story short, after we went out, I got too attached to her and for some reason turned to a nice guy-that is not the explanation she gave me but after reading DJ bible and looking back, I am sure thats what it was.
And before that: Went out for 7 months, everything seemed to be fine. We hung out and had fun on dates, banged...etc...did all the normal stuff. Still ended up with her telling me she was going through something(when in reality she was not so I never got the real reason why she broke it off)
There is actually 2 more but you guys get the point.
I banged all the girls above, so before you guys ask.
I can never seem to do it right. And now when I get too close to girls I brake it off early because I dont want to go through the above process again.
My main question is once you get into a relationship what do you do to keep it?
How often do you hit the girl up?
How often to see her and hang out?
How to let her know you are into her without becoming a nice guy and telling her all that sweet crap?
And I thought from all the movies I seen and what girls say...they like hearing that sweet crap?
Any help would be nice I just want to overcome this fear of hoping into a relationship