WC2
Master Don Juan
Long story short, I was in a relationship for 1 year w/ this girl. I've caught her hooking up with someone early in the relationship (2 weeks) while she was away before, took her back after a few months of gaining my trust back. She went abroad for a few weeks, and got real shady towards the last week. She took a complete 180, telling me that she no longer has feelings. She's never told me this. She was pretty nasty about it, so I didn't talk to her for the rest of the week.
She comes home tomorrow, and if I know this girl, she will call and eventually ease her way back into the relationship. She emailed me today telling me that she still has feelings, but didn't feel like the feelings were equal with me (bs). I don't know if she cheated on me, and I really don't know if I will ever find out (I have a gut feeling she has). As I said, this has happened before.
How do I go about telling her that I don't want anything to do with her, without putting the emotional baggage on myself? I feel the best way to handle this is to not contact her, wait till she contacts me and just tell her honestly that I have lost feeling for her due to her being so confused. I'm not going to get mad, but be confident and happy. From there, hopefully my feelings start to go away (they're already half way there). This is extremely tough, as we've both been through a lot and have a lot of memories.. but if I can't trust her I don't think it's worth it to be hurt again.
Is there a better way to handle this?
She comes home tomorrow, and if I know this girl, she will call and eventually ease her way back into the relationship. She emailed me today telling me that she still has feelings, but didn't feel like the feelings were equal with me (bs). I don't know if she cheated on me, and I really don't know if I will ever find out (I have a gut feeling she has). As I said, this has happened before.
How do I go about telling her that I don't want anything to do with her, without putting the emotional baggage on myself? I feel the best way to handle this is to not contact her, wait till she contacts me and just tell her honestly that I have lost feeling for her due to her being so confused. I'm not going to get mad, but be confident and happy. From there, hopefully my feelings start to go away (they're already half way there). This is extremely tough, as we've both been through a lot and have a lot of memories.. but if I can't trust her I don't think it's worth it to be hurt again.
Is there a better way to handle this?