Kenny Powers
Senior Don Juan
Please only give input if you have practical advice based on experience, not theory.
Recently got out of a 3 year relationship and been crushing it on dating apps (4 this week!), but I have trouble transitioning from initial dates to a hook-up.
For 1st dates I usually get drinks at a chill bar during the week and win them over with my charm, whit and general lack of douchebagness. For 2nd and 3rd dates I'll do drinks again, dinner, or brunch, but as the title implies im not 100% sure how to transition things into hooking up.
When I was younger I would just invite them out with my friends to a bar/party, we both consume alcohol and then a make out would happen naturally.
Now I'm older, in a new city and don't live near most of the girls I meet (can't walk them home). Plus these girls usually have plans with their friends on weekends, so idk if they'd be cool making out with me in front of them.
Do I schedule a date near my house then invite them back to watch a movie? Or make a move when I walk them to their car/bus? What works for you guys?
I haven't done this since college and it feels different with older girls in a big city. I'm ok not getting any by the 2nd or even 3rd date, but by the 4th definitely need to make a move at the latest.
Keep in mind I'm trying to get long-term plates, not a relationship or one time bang. So I'm worried something too romantic sends the wrong message. Going for a classy casual thing.
Recently got out of a 3 year relationship and been crushing it on dating apps (4 this week!), but I have trouble transitioning from initial dates to a hook-up.
For 1st dates I usually get drinks at a chill bar during the week and win them over with my charm, whit and general lack of douchebagness. For 2nd and 3rd dates I'll do drinks again, dinner, or brunch, but as the title implies im not 100% sure how to transition things into hooking up.
When I was younger I would just invite them out with my friends to a bar/party, we both consume alcohol and then a make out would happen naturally.
Now I'm older, in a new city and don't live near most of the girls I meet (can't walk them home). Plus these girls usually have plans with their friends on weekends, so idk if they'd be cool making out with me in front of them.
Do I schedule a date near my house then invite them back to watch a movie? Or make a move when I walk them to their car/bus? What works for you guys?
I haven't done this since college and it feels different with older girls in a big city. I'm ok not getting any by the 2nd or even 3rd date, but by the 4th definitely need to make a move at the latest.
Keep in mind I'm trying to get long-term plates, not a relationship or one time bang. So I'm worried something too romantic sends the wrong message. Going for a classy casual thing.