Hello DJs. I recently met a girl who I thought I hit it off with at first, and next thing I know. She's giving me a thousand reasons why we can't talk, why she can't meet, the list continues. She only would suggest to meet up if it's beneficial on her part.
I'm very aware that she's not interested, and I know that I shouldn't have put her on a pedestal, somewhere inside me I was wishing it would work out with this chick. I even told her how I felt, and it didn't matter to her still. I chased after her still, trying my best to put myself on her radar.When I try to rationalize it and think back, I have a lot of girl friends that treat me with respect more than she ever will and ever did.
I made the initial steps of walking away, deleted her number, unsubscribed from FB, etc. I'm very new to this DJ/alpha-male of thinking, and I just want to ask a few pointers from the guys out there. What should my mentality be like, and why I shouldn't feel bad that it didn't work out with this girl? How do I avoid being put in a situation like this again?
I'm very aware that she's not interested, and I know that I shouldn't have put her on a pedestal, somewhere inside me I was wishing it would work out with this chick. I even told her how I felt, and it didn't matter to her still. I chased after her still, trying my best to put myself on her radar.When I try to rationalize it and think back, I have a lot of girl friends that treat me with respect more than she ever will and ever did.
I made the initial steps of walking away, deleted her number, unsubscribed from FB, etc. I'm very new to this DJ/alpha-male of thinking, and I just want to ask a few pointers from the guys out there. What should my mentality be like, and why I shouldn't feel bad that it didn't work out with this girl? How do I avoid being put in a situation like this again?