Sounds like a case of bitter projection... but there's a flaw in this theory: acting in this manner only attracts the kind of women you hate. Y'know, the low self-esteem, negative / unhappy, game-playing, drama queen crazies. Like attracts like. Becoming an ******* to ward off *******s only attracts even more, bigger *******s (especially when you're doing it for the same bitter, hateful reasons; ie, unintentionally becoming an actual ******* - not just pretending to be one - even if you assume differently).
Been down this route before - even with (fake, bad) friendships, and people in general... all you're going to attract are losers with issues. It's not going to stop them from being the way are - it's only going to attract their crazy asses to you. They flock to this kind of ****. Fight fire with fire, and you'll get burned.
The real problem is the mindset and issues you have, and who you're attracted to as a result. Stop being a crazy, low self-esteem, co-dependant drama queen, and you won't have these problems... for serious. :trouble:
As well, learn to become more content / happy and less crazy, and you'll be repelled by these behaviors - even when others become crazy-obsessive towards you. You'll see how pathetic they really are (as you once were, for the same reasons).
What others have said is also true. This doesn't work on low interest girls.
Taking it further: what actually works is being super awesome (and yes, nice) - while also maintaining a challenge and mystery. They have to actually LIKE you - and what you have to provide, or as they perceive it to be - before they want more. Holding back from there definitely increases their interest further - as well as in general. Never give too much, or be too available, but don't be a jerkface, either... unless you want to attract negative people into your life (ie, losers). They're the only ones attracted to *******s - right from the jump. Yea, they deny it, play the victim, blah blah... but they knew they were negative, low class, hateful people all along - and their similarities attracted them to each othe, and kept the crazy drama going from there (which they sought after).