Okay so I met up with a girl online a few nights ago, date went well we had a lot of drinks and made out a little bit. I'm looking for dating/having fun, she has said the same, but I'm not sure how quickly to move things. I'm tempted to invite her over to "watch a movie" but at the same time I don't want her to think I'm just after sex and kill any later opportunity. Should I do one more fun "date" and then maybe next time bring her back or do I go for it right away?
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How to gauge if a girl wants to hook up?
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i agree with espi
and "having fun" is the universal term for "i just want to bang"
if you both agreed you're just looking to "have fun" i would assume she's down
you don't lose anything by going for it. there's always more girls out there
and "having fun" is the universal term for "i just want to bang"
if you both agreed you're just looking to "have fun" i would assume she's down
you don't lose anything by going for it. there's always more girls out there
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just go for it man. go in for the kill youll feel the right time.
I didn't mean to extrapolate by saying she was just "looking for fun"...what she actually said was she doesn't have any predetermined expectations, and another time mentioned she isn't necessarily looking for a relationship. So yeah, that could definitely be taken as she is just looking for to go out, have fun, casually date and then maybe if something develops a relationship can start.
That's exactly what I'm looking for as well to be honest. I wouldn't rule out a relationship either but I wanna hook up and have fun first and see what happens instead of dating with the sole purpose of trying to form a relationship. Honestly the past few months is the first time in my life I've had this mindset...before I try to appease them with traditional dating format with intention of trying to get a relationship (then hopefully sex) instead of just having fun, doing whatever I want, and worrying about semantics later.
I have a suspicion she's on the same track also, so I'll invite her over and hopefully things work out.
That's exactly what I'm looking for as well to be honest. I wouldn't rule out a relationship either but I wanna hook up and have fun first and see what happens instead of dating with the sole purpose of trying to form a relationship. Honestly the past few months is the first time in my life I've had this mindset...before I try to appease them with traditional dating format with intention of trying to get a relationship (then hopefully sex) instead of just having fun, doing whatever I want, and worrying about semantics later.
I have a suspicion she's on the same track also, so I'll invite her over and hopefully things work out.