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How to become a more well-rounded guy?

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One thing I've noticed about guys who always get girls is that they are extremely well-rounded. They can talk about almost anything.

A friend of mine is this kind of guy. He acts, he plays sports, he keeps up with current events, and you can bring up just about any subject and he'll have some insightful thing to say, even if it is basic.

Do you guys have any general advice on becoming more well-rounded? I realize that "doing more stuff" will get me there, but I'm looking for something more than that. Maybe this is really vague, but hopefully someone can shed some light on this.
 

Yotsuya-san

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"A wise man once said that he who tries to know everything about something ends up knowing something about nothing. And he who tries to know something about everything, ends up knowing everything about nothing"
Harrison Blackwood (War of the Worlds: The Second Invasion)​
 

Berlex

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gain some weight, that should make you rounder
 

misterethoughts

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read... read.... go to library and just read books on any subject... listen to news,music,dvds,tv, and conversate with people who are smarter then you...
 

ScrewIt

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You can only go so far with reading, I suggest taking up new interests/hobbies/activities so when the opportunity arises, you actually have the experience to back up the conversation. Knowledge becomes useless if you dont apply it to the real world. And the real world goes to sh!t if you dont apply it to your wisdom/knowledge. But yes do read the news and keep up with current events.
 

seanchai

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If you want to be interesting, you have to do interesting things. I realized this today. The coolest people in the world, the ones everyone wants to be around, don't have normal, typical days... they do something interesting every day.

So my advice would be, chase one impulse a day and see where it takes you.
 

backbreaker

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seanchai said:
If you want to be interesting, you have to do interesting things. I realized this today. The coolest people in the world, the ones everyone wants to be around, don't have normal, typical days... they do something interesting every day.

So my advice would be, chase one impulse a day and see where it takes you.
if you do more DOing and less THINKing, it comes naturally.


Apprenez à penser en dehors de la boîte, trouvaille ce qui sont et ne donnent vos passions vous-même aucune limite
 

Falcon

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Yea doing more stuff is usually the answer. The key here I believe is that you have to do things that you aren't comfortable doing. Something that goes against your habits. If you're the nerdy type, try picking up a sport. If you're always spending time outside or playing sports, read a book every once and a while. That's what I see as being more well-rounded/balanced.
 

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Berlex said:
gain some weight, that should make you rounder
what an A$$hole...LOL, funny response though:crackup:
 
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