Alright, you see a chick you want to DJ. You rememmber everything you've read, studied or evern tried. Then suddenly some doubt enters your mind.. what if she rejects me? what if i don't get the number? Next time that happens.. think about it this way.... 1) You don't have her number 2) worst case scenario, she doesn't give you her number 3)If you don't do anything, you are basically just WALKING RIGHT INTO the WORST POSSIBLE scenario! Screwing yourself over! So why not? If you don't do anything, and sit on your ass like a nice guy, you are already down for the count. You rejected YOURSELF.