I've been dating a girl for almost 4 years. We have had some break ups here and there along the way but we always stayed sexual and continued to see each other.
For the last year or two, she has been in the position of power where I seem to have more interest in keeping the relationship going.
For this entire time she has been very sexual with me and still is. I've in the past used this to gauge interest, but this girl has pulled back quite a bit and does things I feel are rude, and that you don't do with people you have high interest in. But ita time for sex she is all in.
I opened my big mouth and complained about the lack of attention I was getting. I'm kicking myself because I could have just continued to hook up, but the relationship part wasn't there for me. Do you just keep your mouth shut when you are feeling you aren't getting what you should?
She told me that her job is her main focus and now is no the time for her to focus on a relationship. Said she will always love me, blah blah blah.
I plan on just meeting other chicks, but I would like to have our sexual thing and I'm believing she will call me again to hook up, we have a history so it may linger for awhile.
How should play it to maybe rebuild her interest? I'm interested in what some other forum members would do here.
For the last year or two, she has been in the position of power where I seem to have more interest in keeping the relationship going.
For this entire time she has been very sexual with me and still is. I've in the past used this to gauge interest, but this girl has pulled back quite a bit and does things I feel are rude, and that you don't do with people you have high interest in. But ita time for sex she is all in.
I opened my big mouth and complained about the lack of attention I was getting. I'm kicking myself because I could have just continued to hook up, but the relationship part wasn't there for me. Do you just keep your mouth shut when you are feeling you aren't getting what you should?
She told me that her job is her main focus and now is no the time for her to focus on a relationship. Said she will always love me, blah blah blah.
I plan on just meeting other chicks, but I would like to have our sexual thing and I'm believing she will call me again to hook up, we have a history so it may linger for awhile.
How should play it to maybe rebuild her interest? I'm interested in what some other forum members would do here.
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