How pervasive is technology in your life?

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Studies show about 10% of Americans are addicted to some kind of substance, and the number is probably much higher. And this only accounts for drugs, not other addictions such as pornography, gambling, etc. I'd go so far as to say that over half, up to about 60% of Americans are addicted to something.

One thing that gets a pass is the internet. We are numbing human behavior by spending countless hours on here because it's no longer just about leisure - it's about business, dating, and even bill paying and banking.

Texting and driving is now the leading cause of death in young people every year. When I drive up to a red light or worse, zoom past somebody on the highway looking at their phone, I get really angry. It looks so patently ridiculous you just want to run them off the road and yet, I actually understand the impulse. Meanwhile, the selfie-stick is making a public embarrassment out of everyone who uses it.

I must admit, at times I feel addicted to technology and have to make a conscious effort to have a couple hours a day away from it.

How do you deal with it?
 

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I could be completely addicted to wikipedia if I didn't watch myself. I can get on there and stay on there for hours and not even realize it.

I found myself going on the internet before work (causing me to be late), at work (causing me to not get work done) and late at nite (causing me to sleep less). I had to put a stop to it and now only go a cumulative of 2 hours a day and usually less.

I still have a flip phone and this is the precise reason why.
 
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FairShake said:
I could be completely addicted to wikipedia if I didn't watch myself. I can get on there and stay on there for hours and not even realize it.

I found myself going on the internet before work (causing me to be late), at work (causing me to not get work done) and late at nite (causing me to sleep less). I had to put a stop to it and now only go a cumulative of 2 hours a day and usually less.

I still have a flip phone and this is the precise reason why.
Good for you my friend. Kudos.

I tried this in 2013 and it was very interesting. Unfortunately, I only lasted 23 days before going back as the resistance was too strong. However, I've been thinking about trying this again for a while now. This never-ending consumption is responsible for all kinds of stagnancy in men and bad attitudes in women. When I see people texting and driving, all the way from being stopped at a red light to doing 75 MPH on the highway, I want to start flipping cars.

How easy was this for you? Ironically, I hooked up with a Russian girl in a bar the one night I went out during that 3 week period with that phone. I think I remember using it as an opener and she thought it was funny.
 

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BlueAlpha1 said:
One thing that gets a pass is the internet. We are numbing human behavior by spending countless hours on here because it's no longer just about leisure - it's about business, dating, and even bill paying and banking.
Phones have made it easier for internet on the go. Go out and count how many people you see using phones in public. Even old foks bought into it and can't go without it. I bet people would give up other addictions first before going without their phone or internet. I read a poll somewhere and people said they would give up sex over giving up facebook etc. You can see how bad it's become. I have a busy lifestyle, so I don't spend a lot of time online unless I have time off. I'm more old school when it comes to technology. I try not to get sucked in to all of it.
 

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I have a love/hate for technology, about 70% hate and 30% love. I was a big participant in the Commodore 64 BBS days in the 80s and very early 90s. I have had Internet access sense 1992 back when it was a giant world wide play toy for those lucky enough to get their hands on it. Then it evolved into a sublimental tool to help us with our daily lives and make things easier, like being able to Email instead or other traditional communications. I remember sending my first Emails and how cool it was. Then the first time I was able to attach a picture to an Email using uueencode (geek speak). Wow, that was so cool.

Then the Internet/tech evolved into what it is today where people can't seem to figure out how to wipe their a$$ without it. Working in I.T. I see this first hand. It is absolutely sick. People have no backup plan and no ability to think for themselves anymore; they expect technology to do it all. As the evolution process I just described has progressed, I personally have stepped back further from it. I used to sit at home and geek out for 3-6 hours a day at times playing with Linux, building Windows servers and small networks, etc. Now outside of work I only do a few things with technology. This site is one, but I still socialize offline too. I also pay my bills online, but still know how to pay them offline too. I use GPS when in a strange place, but still know how to read a map or stop and ask. I use text messaging and Email a lot, but still know how to call or talk in person. Still being the key word. There isn't a darn thing I do with technology that I don't have the ability to do without it. That's the root problem and it's only getting worse. God help the world in the future.

I also find that i have to have breaks from technology or I go insane. At my part-time job as a police officer that I have now, my Chief is very low tech so we only use tech for some basics. Even though that's a job and I am at WORK, its so much less stress than my job in I.T. Like 50x less believe it or not. I think I would go insane myself if I didn't have this break, or another one like it like a low tech hobby or another low tech job.
 

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Technology isn't just "apart" of our lives, today it IS our lives. Everything is tied to Technology and the future of this Specialized Skill Economy based on the Information Age....is going to be Technology and Automation with a Globalized footprint.

So instead of trying to put the Technology "away," if you are smart, you need to be picking up ALL of these new forms of Technology and figuring out not just how they can make your personal life easier, but how they can increase your salary/earnings/business network.
 

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I had my cable shut off this month. I honestly don't watch much tv and I save 75 dollars a month by not having the DVR high def package. I get all my movies and books through the local public library for free. I'm not a fan of audio or ebooks either even though the library does have them. I also don't have to sit through the bull**** brainwashing commercials.

I had a landline phone and a simple Trac phone up until 6 months ago. Someone gave me a free Galaxy 4 when they upgraded so now I'm using that, but will probably go back to a simple phone that only calls/texts at the end of this year. There is a constant pressure to upgrade to phones you really don't need. The pressure usually comes from friends who complain of always being broke while having a 100 dollar cell phone bill each month.

I surfed the web on a 6 year old desktop up until last year when I needed a laptop with more RAM to stream youtube videos.

I do not participate in social networking of any kind. No Facebook account, twitter, etc. I find it to just be a timesink.
 

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Dust 2 Dust said:
I had my cable shut off this month. I honestly don't watch much tv and I save 75 dollars a month by not having the DVR high def package. I get all my movies and books through the local public library for free. I'm not a fan of audio or ebooks either even though the library does have them. I also don't have to sit through the bull**** brainwashing commercials.

I had a landline phone and a simple Trac phone up until 6 months ago. Someone gave me a free Galaxy 4 when they upgraded so now I'm using that, but will probably go back to a simple phone that only calls/texts at the end of this year. There is a constant pressure to upgrade to phones you really don't need. The pressure usually comes from friends who complain of always being broke while having a 100 dollar cell phone bill each month.

I surfed the web on a 6 year old desktop up until last year when I needed a laptop with more RAM to stream youtube videos.

I do not participate in social networking of any kind. No Facebook account, twitter, etc. I find it to just be a timesink.
I'm sorry buddy, but you are limiting your productivity and networking capabilities.

- I too don't have Cable anymore, mainly because I never have time to watch it. Either I'm working or doing something online which has my face in front of the computer and not in front of the TV set. Plus I'm watching/listening videos online while I'm working, so I can't watch/listen to the videos while having the TV playing at the same time. What I do have is a Roku box along with NetFlix and the WWE Network.

- Services like Boost Mobile run efficiently and they use the latest types of mobile telephonic technology that does more than just call and text, it connects to the web, downloads apps, pictures, camera, etc. Boost Mobile is $35 - $60 a month unlimited depending on which plan you choose.

We are in the Internet Information Age guys, you want to have AT LEAST the latest mobile and laptop technology so you can keep up with the levels of productivity out here. This shouldn't cost you a significant amount of money. Again Boost's service is $35 a month for US unlimited, the phone itself might cost about $79 - $120 depending on which phone you buy. A nice laptop with Windows 8 (soon to be Windows 10) is significantly better than an outdated laptop with Windows XP for example.

You can get more things done faster and more efficiently. I don't know about you guys but my LIFE is on the internet. I bank on it, invest on it, do business on it, my professional network comes from it, about 95% of the new pvssy/plates I get comes from it now, my market research comes from it, my news comes from it, and I also completed a good CHUNK of my degree programs on it.
 

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LOL I still have XP running on my old desktop, which I had built for me in 2007. When I call tech support for anything computer-related, they're absolutely worthless as soon as I tell them I have XP. It's like calling Toyota and asking for help with your steam engine.

And I still have a stupidphone, which I hate. The phone manufacturers have a put a lot of effort into making the base model phone infuriating to use, to help sell the much more expensive smart phone data plans.

And as for the type of services available, all of that depends on where you live. It must be great to be in a city, but out in the sticks where I live, options disappear quickly. I can't even get a hookup to the cable company; it's satellite only.
 
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oh, bs. Having piped in, under pressure running water is "technology". Having electricity, gas heat, refrigeration, all are "technology". The texting while driving thing, or even "just" while sitting at a light, should be cause to be dragged out of your care and being caned down your shins. Why can't the pos's make CALLS? That's disctraction enough, but at least, it's hands free and you can watch the road while you talk! If you can't afford a phone bill, get an obamaphone, lop. Stop endangering everyone on the road with you, just because you want to communicate with some other dumbass just like you
 

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BlueAlpha1 said:
How easy was this for you?
Very easy, I've never had a smart phone. I don't have a Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter nor do I ever check anyone else's. I still call people on the phone in lieu of texting if possible. I still hang out with people at the pool hall, bar, or basketball court instead of liking their "updates." I rarely take any photos. I use the internet for bills and news and information but don't need a phone for that at all times. Hell, I still go to the store to buy things like clothes and shoes and fishing and biking supplies.

I'm a nurse so I need access to technology at the job but we have mobile computer workstations. It takes a lot of effort to keep off Google for anything other than symptoms and drug interactions but I've remained sober for awhile now. One of the great things about my job is that when I'm not there I'm not thinking about it. No need for constant checking of emails.

I'm sorry buddy, but you are limiting your productivity and networking capabilities.
I'm actually a lot MORE productive without the constant phone distraction in my hands.

As for networking, I call people.
 

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I use my smart phone daily also. Most of the stuff on the net is waffle in my opinion (celebrities, social media, front of the page politics blah blah) so I avoid this. It amazes me how kardashians etc gain such a following. This just signifies that most people in life are lazy and not looking to better themselves. How can people be fixated on celebrities?? Crazy!

If you weed through the nonsense, and search for things that will IMPROVE your life. Sites that will enhance your skills. You will unearth gold. I like to read up and watch videos on how to improve my golf. Use forums specifically regarding my profession (I'm an architect) book websites. Travel research. Of course sosuave. These type of sites give me the opportunity to communicate with like minded people. That's the benefit of technology in my opinion.
 

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Haven't really read through all the replies here but let me add my own and most likely I'll stand out for a reason. And yes, wall of text warning.

Ever since I was a kid of 3 years old I have short memories of playing with toys or things my older brothers had, namely any sort of electronics that were around the house. Of course back then, the only thing that could be qualifies as electronics would be a calculator. There was literally nothing else; the phone was still rotary, tv with no cable and we were able to get 3 channels (4 if you counted pbs), we had 1 radio, though 2 if you counted the one in the garage for my dad.

Our first real electronic device was probably when the first Ataris were released. My brothers and I f*cking loved that thing and I devoured it because of the ability to now play different games. Then later I managed to get a Nintendo, plus we actually had a VCR too! Fast forward some more and I was one of the first people in my small town with a cell phone back when they still used analog. One of the first people to get on the internet. Technology became my life so to speak because I was constantly fascinated with what could be done or devising new ways to accomplish things, so much in fact that I turned it into a career. I still work in tech today but you really do need that sort of passion and drive to survive in this industry.

Now with that said, and it's likely because I work around it all the time, I do take active steps to now remove technology from my life. Tech can be great however today the amount of information available can easily lead to an overload on your mind, eat into your time unnecessarily thereby preventing you from doing productive things, and perhaps the worst part if that a great deal of information is presented as "valuable" somehow when it fact it's completely worthless. A person or entity tries to trick people into thinking this information is absolutely some kind of 'must need to know right now' which continuously consumes them and people by and large still haven't even figured this out yet let alone devise some method of combating it by disregarding frivolous information.

I have not used a cell phone (or if you want to call it a smart phone these days) in nearly 10 years. I tell people this and they look at me in shock and disbelief wondering how I can survive without one. The most used reply from people appeals to me for safety reasons when they ask "What if you're in a car wreck or your car breaks down or something?" Well I live in a large city so it isn't like I'll be stranded on the side of the road for a long time; people will come by and when they stop I'll ask for help. But the more important point is that I know how to handle myself if I were stranded. I grew up in a time before cell phones and I have been stranded along roads that don't see maybe a few cars every day. You have to know how to take personal responsibility for yourself at the very least. Some of these people who can't comprehend this have kids of their own. If you can't take care of yourself in these situations or know what to do, you expect to be able to take care of others?

Does anyone remember an older movie called Dutch, starring Ed O'Neill? I rather liked that movie and I consider it a classic that I enjoy watching every so often. One particular quote Ed's character said in the movie to the bratty kid Doyle was "Someday you're going to get in a situation where you can't call for help. You'll have to depend on yourself, and you'll let yourself down."
I couldn't have said it any better myself.

I tried out Facebook in the first few years it was available and got rid of my account after about a year. Quite simply, reading the musings of crap people think is somehow important got old quick. These days you can filter that stuff out but I have no desire to be the product for a company that will make money off of me not to mention harvest every bit of information about my personal life for their own use. I think this was a good call because now we have entire strategies as men devoted to how to combat the attention wh0ring women do online in order to feed their egos.

When I think about it, my god, the people I grew up with were probably one of the last generations in the USA who had to game young women the old fashioned way and didn't have exposure to social media. What really almost scares me now is that there will never be another generation again in this country who will go back to the way it was before all this.

So to try and not write a f*cking novel...though it looks like I already have... I don't keep much of an online presence at all that identifies with who I actually am in real life as a person. I sure as hell don't need the electronic leash that so many people today gladly accept because they just can't live without some new post from Facebook or texting with some buddies or anything else. Tech is great but when it removes that interpersonal interaction you can have with someone else, I have noticed it has degraded our society a bit because people don't know how to properly interact in social situations, filter what they say, or have suddenly forgotten or never learn proper manners.
 
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