KingofHearts
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 7, 2009
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So I've been seeing this girl for about 9 months now. Your welcome to look up my post history on how this relationship got started. Not the most romantic, but hey, I think things are as good as they can get now . Basically I've got a girl that will do anything for me. Is submissive inside and outside the bedroom. Pretty much nothing is off limits sexually. She is just a fraction of the crazy my ex-wife was. Its all good.
After being in a relationship this long, of course my eye wanders. No doubt I have options should I choose to go for it. I think every guy does if he's social enough and keen enough to detect IL. I haven't cheated or anything but i have confidence that I could and be forgiven. That's how good it is right now. This relationship has been the perfect combination of her submission and me knowing what I want. Looking back on my history with girls, I've certainly encountered similar girls. Slightly overweight, submissive, will do anything for a man. We've all seen them right? If I break up with my current girl, I could reproduce a similar relationship with another girl (or several) right away. Like clockwork. But for what? She hasn't f'd up. She's messed up unintentionally (gets clingy), but she hasn't done anything to screw me over.
So if all I'm looking for from women is sex, company and some occasional help (domestic or otherwise), then I've got it already. The one I'm with now seems to be ok with never getting married or having kids. Time will tell of course. If I go out and spin plates, then I'll just be looking for more of the same. As it is though, I don't spend enough time with the one I have.
At times I do get bored with my gf, I'm a restless person in general. I start to think maybe there's something better or different out there. I've broken up with her twice and just as quickly took her back. When I really analyze what I want, I realize that my girl can do it all. I think that maybe my search for something deeper from my gf is the same as guys who fck 50 girls and discover they're all pretty much the same (and kind of shallow). Girls can only add so much value to your life before they become a hindrance. Not that I'm looking to get married again soon, but I can see how Karma and other sosuave posters decided to get married for a second time. At some point, do you conclude this is as good as it gets?
So that's where I'm at. Not sure if I just plateaued with girls for now or if I actually maxed out. My girl is perfectly satisfactory. And I'm confident I could find another one to replace her should something happen. What else is there to women? Should I be content with what I got? Or is there more to women I'm missing out on? Is there another girl out there that could add more value or satisfy more needs to my life than what I've got now?
After being in a relationship this long, of course my eye wanders. No doubt I have options should I choose to go for it. I think every guy does if he's social enough and keen enough to detect IL. I haven't cheated or anything but i have confidence that I could and be forgiven. That's how good it is right now. This relationship has been the perfect combination of her submission and me knowing what I want. Looking back on my history with girls, I've certainly encountered similar girls. Slightly overweight, submissive, will do anything for a man. We've all seen them right? If I break up with my current girl, I could reproduce a similar relationship with another girl (or several) right away. Like clockwork. But for what? She hasn't f'd up. She's messed up unintentionally (gets clingy), but she hasn't done anything to screw me over.
So if all I'm looking for from women is sex, company and some occasional help (domestic or otherwise), then I've got it already. The one I'm with now seems to be ok with never getting married or having kids. Time will tell of course. If I go out and spin plates, then I'll just be looking for more of the same. As it is though, I don't spend enough time with the one I have.
At times I do get bored with my gf, I'm a restless person in general. I start to think maybe there's something better or different out there. I've broken up with her twice and just as quickly took her back. When I really analyze what I want, I realize that my girl can do it all. I think that maybe my search for something deeper from my gf is the same as guys who fck 50 girls and discover they're all pretty much the same (and kind of shallow). Girls can only add so much value to your life before they become a hindrance. Not that I'm looking to get married again soon, but I can see how Karma and other sosuave posters decided to get married for a second time. At some point, do you conclude this is as good as it gets?
So that's where I'm at. Not sure if I just plateaued with girls for now or if I actually maxed out. My girl is perfectly satisfactory. And I'm confident I could find another one to replace her should something happen. What else is there to women? Should I be content with what I got? Or is there more to women I'm missing out on? Is there another girl out there that could add more value or satisfy more needs to my life than what I've got now?