How many of you are into foreign women?

[MatureDJ]

It seems with more and and more regularity, there are are members of this forum who speak very highly of foreign women (myself included.) Folks like STR8UP and Hooligan_Harry opine that all things being equal, they would rather be in Eastern Europe or Latin America.

As for myself, as I mature, I have less and less desire to spend my time in the USA. The ability to be around attractive women who find me interesting outweighs whatever benefits I have in the USA (such as relaxing at home and enjoying my hobbies, visiting various festivals, meeting with family and friends, etc.) I am sick and tired of mostly seeing fat or child-laden women when I out and about, and knowing that on the rare occasion that an attractive woman is free, that she will look upon me with vile and disgust, or have serious psychological issues. It really is depressing.

 

[Hooligan Harry]

It seems with more and and more regularity, there are are members of this forum who speak very highly of foreign women (myself included.) Folks like STR8UP and Hooligan_Harry opine that all things being equal, they would rather be in Eastern Europe or Latin America.

As for myself, as I mature, I have less and less desire to spend my time in the USA. The ability to be around attractive women who find me interesting outweighs whatever benefits I have in the USA (such as relaxing at home and enjoying my hobbies, visiting various festivals, meeting with family and friends, etc.) I am sick and tired of mostly seeing fat or child-laden women when I out and about, and knowing that on the rare occasion that an attractive woman is free, that she will look upon me with vile and disgust, or have serious psychological issues. It really is depressing.

The biggest difference for me has been to see the way women LIKE to be women. They see no shame in it. There are clear gender roles at play and they accept them. I have been fortunate enough to live and/or work in some of the countries for extended periods of time so I have had the luxury of seeing what a lot of these women are like in their own environments. I have also dated women from poorer countries who had moved to richer western countries.

The women that made the biggest impression were Russian and Colombian, although I have dated Estonian, Latvian, Brazilian and a few Spanish birds.

Russian women are highly educated. They certainly dont lack intelligence. A large percentage pursue technical degrees. They generally have hobbies and interests outside work and their social life. So many dance, play instruments, practice crafts and hobbies. I have never met a western woman who shares my love of history yet Russian women bring it up as topic of conversation. While western girls are reading glossy magazines and non fiction paperbacks a lot of these girls are seen on the Metro reading proper books. Will never forget seeing a supermodel reading what looked to be an encyclopaedia in the park. Next to what looked like her grandmother necking a quart of beer from the bottle

They are far from perfect. I found them to be incredibly argumentative and opinionated. They have the ability to make you think you running the show when its far from the case. They expect a man to pay for everything which is the way my father raised me but would be considered dating suicide in western countries these days. They want a traditional man who is going to give her 4 kids while he slaves away at work putting food on the table. Even more they want a man who is filthy rich and will give them an extravagant lifestyle. Very old fashioned yet mercenary in their approach to dating.

Traditional to the extreme and highly intelligent so you have your work cut out for you. They are wife material a lot of them. A woman scorned? I pity any man that crosses a Russian woman. A lot of **** tests with these women. They like men to be men. I think John Wayne is every russian girls wet dream.

They are beautiful though. St Petersburg and Moscow are almost impossible to explain. Most are difficult to talk to if you dont know Russian although a lot are learning English. Most of the ones I met and spent time with either romantically or socially were english speakers as they worked for companies that required english as a language. Very approachable although can come across as cold sometimes. Its the russian demeanour more then their desire to talk to you.

Colombian women are off the chain though. I dated one for over two years and if I was not so young would have probably married her. Her friends were much the same and her family were great. She was from an upper middle class family by Colombian standards. Never gave me uphill unless I was in the wrong. Always went out of her way to do something even though I never asked for it. Was an absolute animal in the sack. Always laughing and very happy. Very little drama.

Western women are a different beast. You get your gems but man I have had some bad runs with them. They have ridiculous expectations at times. They dont look after themselves. They expect you to worship them yet treat men who do worship them like ****. They fvck around and the thought of staying home to raise children is seen as a slight.

I am currently in Perth, Australia. Been living her for about 8 months now and I think I am probably going to stay here. I love this place. The Aussie women are friendly and down to earth but Im not sure if they will be much different from the harpys I have dated in South Africa and the UK. They age badly. Massive tits though these aussie birds. Massive tits.

I think I have been ruined by foreign women to be quite honest. Having dated them, lived with them, worked with them and socialised with them its difficult to find something that competes.

 

[STR8UP]

My plan is to fukk around here in the states for the next ten years or so, then head SOMEWHERE where the women want to be women.

Sadly, my actual experience with these foreign women has been limited, as I haven't been able to LIVE abroad. But the two week sampler course.....amn oh man.....

I remember sitting in a pub in Tbilisi, Georgia, where groups of American guys who work for the oil companies would come in with their Georgian g/f's. A few days later I was introduced to a total hottie that I hit it off with, and I had both her and her friend vying for my attention my remaining time there.

I'm telling you.....until you have walked down the street minding your business and had every single store clerk and waitress literally stop what they are doing to watch you walk by, you don't know what you are missing.

The biggest problem with western women as has been stated is that they don't know how to act like women. The foreign chicks....that's all they know how to do! And it's wonderful.

Funny thing is, I have had several experiences with women who were BORN in other countries, but moved to the US.

My last LTR was fillipina. She was sweet and lady like, but she moved to the states when she was 3 yrs old, so she was very americanized.

It was funny to watch her mom try to hold down the more traditional values, while my g/f tried to make her MOM more westernized.

I will never forget her telling me how she told her mom that we were having sex, and that she had been with one other guy before me, and her mom being shocked that I was ok with the fact that she wasn't a virgin. How quaint

Another example is my AW friend. She was born in Slovakia and lived there most of her life, so she grew up differently. Now don't get me wrong....she as Sex and the City as they come, but talking to her about dating expectations and such and you can tell she sees things a little differently.

I thought it was very funny when she told me that she doesn't like the movie Napoleon Dynamite because where she grew up, people didn't pick on others in high school, so she just didn't get the humor. Different worlds, I guess.

I honestly believe that the quality of my life would be much better if I had the option of living abroad in a non=westernized country. Maybe I need to revise my plan to make it 5 years instead of 10

 

[afrojiggles]

i bet you guys should try to deal with danish women who are soo arrogant and need to be gamed to shut up as i am doing here..though they are boring as hell !!

 

[bigjohnson]

The biggest difference for me has been to see the way women LIKE to be women. They see no shame in it. There are clear gender roles at play and they accept them.

Spot on, and it doesn't make them lesser as people, it makes them greater. The Philippines have my vote, small and sweet, hard working, dedicated, loyal to family. What's not to love?

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear MatureDJ,
Having dated Foreign girls,as the shards are removed from your eyes there is no going back,is there?In many ways a good foreign woman combines the highest attributes found in her kind and a faithful submissive loyalty I had only previously associated in owning a dog.....Just as truffles and fine Wines are best appreciated by the taste buds of the Connoisseur then the best of these women are for the Man who has many relationships behind him.....Generalisations always have their exceptions and thank the good Lord above,we all have different tastes....I have dated and observed on the dancing scene,many of Big Johnsons Phillipino girls as pure sex toys they are wonderful if unimaginative lovers,but if down the line,you wish to relate to them on a higher level,there is a cultural gap a mile wide,despite having devout Christian backgrounds those I meet all seem obsessed with money and things,mistaking form for substance,they seem to be born poor in their mentality and seem oblivious to the contemplative pleasures of life....Nature,Philosophy,good books,music all seem seeds that fall on barren ground........Another real killer with them is their,love me love my family culture,everything revolves around family and even the older ones just yearn for more themselves....they identify around family and see their selfworth in the number of children they have....Russians,in general are fine Women far better educated than their Western Sisters and culturally aware they make good partners....given that the average Ivan has drunk himself to death at a median age of 54 we look quite attractive prospects to them and they so often with blonde hair, blue eyes and amiable dispositions are very attractive to us....Some years ago,I had one in tow for a long time.Sadly she developed almost Bulimic habits and from being a Svelte 110 pounder almost doubled her weight....She had to go,I miss her playing the Piano,her pastries and strangest of all, listening to her reading War and Peace in the original Russian,the cadence had a lilting poetic quality that made me aware of the sheer charm in Russian literature.....But No the best Women for an educated Western Male with a high Libido,is an intelligent Mainland Chinese Women with a reasonable grasp of English....She will Know as Much about Western Literature as you do,likely play an instrument,in bed she will do just what you want without any guilt feelings....sure it is a trade off,they have no sense of humour and the whole concept of sarcasm is lost on them....Funnily enough the sort of Male that appeals to them is that essentially anti-social being who will never attract a Western Women,if you are packing a lot of weight,balding and maybe ten years older,she won't worry...Yes she will be a little pecuniary and a Man without a steady job doesn't rate,but all in all they represent excellent value.

 

[Junkyard]

I love latin women in particular. And I agree with Hooligan about Colombian women

Ive been planning to go down there for vacation, but all my friends are scared to go lol

 

[Night Owl]

French Women only for me- tried the rest, and decided that they are the best lovers and cooks and keep themselves neat, trim and tidy

 

[backbreaker]

my GF is british, I do have a thing for british women. at least the accent.

 

[AFC Championship]

foreign cuisine > Hamburger Helper

 

[AFC Championship]

my GF is british, I do have a thing for british women. at least the accent.

me too, many British accents that I have heard from the female side seem to have that distinguished dash of innocence in the voice that i dig

 

[Ballie]

I agree with Hooligan about the South African women - the young ones are OK, but they don't look after themselves - especially after marriage and become fat slobs with big t!ts. When they get divorced they become obsessive about finding another provider - but haven't got much to offer in return.

I'm seriously looking at dating an Indian women as they look after their men and are beautiful - but the cultural barrier is hard to break through.

I have fvcked some chinese woman and I agree that they are the best lovers though and do strive to please you.

 

[samspade]

I'm a sucker for dark skin and an accent.

I happen to be going to Brazil for two weeks in November. First time, but I've heard some amazing accounts of the women there. Anyone have any stories?

 

[Colossus]

Brazillian/Argentinan women are harder to crack. Understand before you go there that the Brazillian culture (and many hispanic cultures) are very much a machismo-centered culture. It's all about bravado and who has the biggest balls. The men there are aggressive with women and are relentless in trying to fvck them, so the women develop a sort of wall against male advances. That doesnt mean you cant get them, you just have to be persistent, and not timid.

If you really want to go somewhere where you will be welcomed and adored, go to Japan. For some reason they LOVE American men. If you are good-looking you could easily have your fill there in a week. Plus they will think your d!ck is huge!!

Foreign women certainly have a different flavor and way about them, and it's not all good. Some countries really have a distaste for Americans. It just depends. I work at a major academic center where foreign women are much more common than US women. I think Hooligan Harry's explanation was right on. There are gems here in the west, but US women are very entitled and have outlandish expectations these days. They want it all, yet they bring considerably less to the table. They just refuse to accept that men and women are naturally complementary; and that genuine, submissive femininity (not the material-centric b!tchy western variety) is GOOD and men desire this.

 

[mikeraw]

Physically, every nationality and country has both extremes and everything in the middle, from hideous to gorgeous. And it's all pink inside, so I assume this question refers to non-physical characteristics...

Being Latin, I'd ideally want to end up with someone from my own country (Nicaragua) or the surrounding area, but the problem with such conservative countries is that women just end up turning into baby machines or lazy housewives, and I'd really like a professional, working woman for a bunch of reasons, not the least of which being that with so much time on her hands she will most certainly stray and fark around.

Colombian and Venezuelan women are among the most beautiful in the world and many pursue science-intensive careers. Problem with them is that they're pushy about marriage.

Argentine and Chilean chicks have a lot of European in them, so they're taller than your average Latin American woman and are fair-skinned, for the most part.

I think Brazilian chicks have let the recent wave of supermodels get to their head, especially the semi-educated, middle class ones, but I did hear that in Sao Paolo there's a HUGE shortage of men, so it's easy to score there, samspade...

The Andean countries (Ecuador, Peru, Bolivia, etc...) still have a lot of Native-looking chicks, and I'm not into that, but they're pretty submissive...

I agree with those that like Russians and Eastern Europeans... I like the contrast between pale skin and dark hair and in Ukraine, especially, they get treated like crap by their men, so any Westerner with basic manners already has an advantage there.

Anyone here ever been with an Arab? I'm kinda curious about them...

 

[Night Owl]

Nope French Chicks beat them all hands down everytime

 

[backbreaker]

me too, many British accents that I have heard from the female side seem to have that distinguished dash of innocence in the voice that i dig

the other day we were having sex and we did anal for the first time, which was neat.. anyway she starts talking dirty and she started saying she's a dirty little ***** in her british accent... I could not have been anymore turned on than i was at that moment

 

[jophil28]

Nope French Chicks beat them all hands down everytime

Back in the late 80's I was the token Aussie on campus at Duke for two years.. Well, I guess it is time to fess up. I did some perverted and disgusting things with some of your southern belles.
Just had to get that off my chest...he he .

The point is this... all foreign women are more attractive than the domestic product just like those sleek foreign cars look hotter than those stationwagons from GMC.
Similarly foreign women are frequently attracted to men from another country. I can attest to that. Just being DIFFERENT,acting different, looking different and speaking with a foreign accent seems to raise your preceived value. MY accent is not very different to the SE version in NC, we both spoke the same English, but it was just diiferent enough to make the difference.

Many times, i think, being from a foreign country is mainly about novelty rather than real improvement.

 

[slaog]

Back in the late 80's I was the token Aussie on campus at Duke for two years.. Well, I guess it is time to fess up. I did some perverted and disgusting things with some of your southern belles.
Just had to get that off my chest...he he .

The point is this... all foreign women are more attractive than the domestic product just like those sleek foreign cars look hotter than those stationwagons from GMC.
Similarly foreign women are frequently attracted to men from another country. I can attest to that. Just being DIFFERENT,acting different, looking different and speaking with a foreign accent seems to raise your preceived value. MY accent is not very different to the SE version in NC, we both spole the same English, but it was diiferent enough to make the difference.

Many times, i think, being from a foreign country is mainly about novelty rather than real improvement.

Very true!

The foreigner has something unique and that means high value (depending if you like it).

 

[Phyzzle]

I agree with Hooligan. Slavic culture demands that women bring a lot to the table.

For those who have been around the states, have you noticed that women seem to be so much more interesting and intelligent in Boston? That would be a result of the massive Eastern European immigration there in the early 20th century.

I will rag on American women as much anybody, but I have to admit, they are the least gold-digging women I've encountered. American women just wanna have fun. They aren't hanging back for some boring malpractice lawyer who's 15 years older and has dental coverage. They want the fun guy, and they'll follow their emotions.