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How high is getting laid on your list of priorities?

Bumsniff

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How high is getting laid on your list of priorities and why?
 

foreverAFC

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im addicted to internet porn so its not real important, i can just get high and jerk off on top of my comp and lose myself in my fcked up porno fantasy land whenever i want, its cheaper than paying for dates and you wont get cheated on
 

SamTheHobit

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Not very high, I'd prefer a female companion.
 

nroug7

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It's at the bottom. I can get laid any time, the same does not apply to everything else in life.
 

bigneil

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It's a function of how long it's been.

Most men are sex camels and can go for months with 1 or 2 humps.

After 3 months it starts to affect you in subtle ways. After 6 months it's more pronounced and you are in a definite slump. That's when women sense something is amiss. After a year it becomes unhealthy and you should pay a hooker or lower your standards.
 

fuko2007

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important but not that important. Ive got this girl i just enjoy laying in bed with. I really dont care if we have sex everyday or once a month.
 

bukowski_merit

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Very low. I have sex about 4-5 nights a month (normally with different women). And sometimes - that feels like too much.

It's not that I don't enjoy it - it's just - I prefer to do other things.

I guess it matters that sex isn't just boom boom with me.... It's an event that lasts the night (not the sex; the event.) She comes over, we talk, drink, hit the bed, finish, go back to drinking, maybe hit the bed again some time later... etc... Normally into the early morning.... Then... I do other stuff with the rest of my week/time (silly things like watching sports, playing video games, and playing cards are all higher on the list (as well as less silly business/fitness stuff) than sex is.).
 

Gunner26

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Still a virgin, so it should be an issue, but it's not. I'm not fussed about sex, it is what it is, yeah it'd be nice, but I've got other stuff to focus on, namely uni, sport, and socialising. If it happens, it happens.

My mates think it's a big deal though, they say they are taking me out to celebrate once I have done the deed haha. If anything that would put more pressure on me if I was actually that fussed about it.

Gunner
 

Mike32ct

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bigneil said:
It's a function of how long it's been.

Most men are sex camels and can go for months with 1 or 2 humps.

After 3 months it starts to affect you in subtle ways. After 6 months it's more pronounced and you are in a definite slump. That's when women sense something is amiss. After a year it becomes unhealthy and you should pay a hooker or lower your standards.
^This, pretty much.
 

SgtSplacker

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If I really think I can lay a good looking girl that is my number one objective until I get tired of it or just change my mind, everything else in my life gets put on hold if need be.
But, for me to make any real sacrifice it would have to be pretty darn sure I was going to hit it and that it was going to be really good. Any un-sexual, teasing, or semi ugly girls just don't get this kind of priority with me. Only the possibility of spine tingling sex with a really sexy girl.
 

sambwoy

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I hate sex being talked about in my circles like its essential. They talk like not being good-looking is another excuse to not get intimate with any woman of your choosing, but I wonder if they know women that well, because it does matter.
 

VladPatton

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Snatch is like money...the more you crave it and are obsessed with it, the less it comes into your grasp. NiceƑuckinlife!
 

bluenorther

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The women I'm supposed to be around make sex such an unpleasant duty, it stops being important. Most of the women my age are fat hoe-bags. I joke about not knowing if I have ED, because these women are such a turnoff for me.
 

Trump

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bigneil said:
It's a function of how long it's been.

Most men are sex camels and can go for months with 1 or 2 humps.

After 3 months it starts to affect you in subtle ways. After 6 months it's more pronounced and you are in a definite slump. That's when women sense something is amiss. After a year it becomes unhealthy and you should pay a hooker or lower your standards.
Not having sex for one year is "unhealthy"? Not sure I understand. I could then say "the market not buying my product and its causing my stock to go down" is unhealthy for me so I should go steal.

If a girl thinks she can control your health by not having sex with you, she will crush you, and then crush you again. It's all a game.
 

MM92

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It's really not that important. Definitely more important things in life but if you go longer than 6 months without it getting laid once then you definitely need to up your game in that department.
 

coochieman

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Been celibate for three weeks, on a three month target.

Experiencing a Woman-Hate streak at the moment.

New poosy would might me break this streak prematurely.

Got a plate two houses away, can get it almost anytime we're free.

Got more pressing concerns now [wondering if I'd be sayin' this if I were George Clooney with tens of tens within ten miles wanting to take me in every hole].
 

Who Dares Win

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As short term objective is very high, from 1 to 10 I may say 8.

Mid term decrease to 6 while getting a great body stands at 8.

Long term cant really tell, more than the single lay it has priority to be able to bang easily in general, I would say a 7 which almost disappear considering that getting a high social position and stand above others (most of) is a solid 10.

Anyway I have no problem to go with escorts if it needs, its just the hassle to book and reach the place although my biggest problem is my instinct which force me to conquer girls and bang them in the most dirty possible way.

Even worse I tend to lose interest in a girl after I bang her which makes my life much harder.
 

Plutoman

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Meh. I can go without the sex, but I love having a date with a fun girl and getting a bit physical. Ends in sex? Eh. I'd like to get at least a make-out though.

Gotta get laid on occasion, though, but it doesn't phase me. Though if I'm drinking, my drive goes up tremendously... then I could care less about making out and just getting my **** in one of her holes.

I have to focus more on classes/work in general. I wish I could focus more on girls, but what I wish is not necessarily what needs to be done.
 
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