Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

How good can you realistically get?

shandoli

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2002
Messages
271
Reaction score
2
Age
39
Ok..so I have been coming to this site for the past two years or so regularly. I have also been skimming ASF or fastseduction.com as you know it, all this time.

One question that is in my mind is...
HOW GOOD CAN YOU GET WITH THIS?

People who visit ASf know that MYSTERY is considered the best PUA on this planet. TD is also very good. Mystery's success rate is something like 1 in 3 lays that he approaches.

now how good can an average person get with this. Not just with PUAing but also socialising in general.
 

Julian

Banned
Joined
Jul 30, 2003
Messages
4,797
Reaction score
1,233
skys the limit
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,515
Reaction score
62
Location
Galt's Gulch
The only limitations are those that you put on yourself.
 

shandoli

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2002
Messages
271
Reaction score
2
Age
39
Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
The only limitations are those that you put on yourself.
Oh come on!!
Get real with me here..
its a very good mindset to have while you are trying to get stuff done but we all know reality is different!!

just like people say"nothing is impossible"
its a good attitude to have but we all know humans cant fly!! right!!
so dont give me this philosophical bullsh!t!!

answer the damn question or shut the fuvk up!!
 

KevM2

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2002
Messages
32
Reaction score
0
You can't predict sh1t like that. You get as good as the effort you're willing to put in. The more time you spend getting out there and getting at the women and the more time you sit there practicing your skills, the better you'll get. Eventually, you'll probably hit a barrier where results taper off due to the law of diminishing returns, but by then, you'll probably have all the women you need.

Clarify what you meant by referring to 'how good.'
 

ManOMan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 23, 2003
Messages
504
Reaction score
2
I think there are many variables involved with how successful you can be with women

some factors are Looks, demeanor, confidence level, quantity of approaches, and the quality of women you pursue(how easy she is, how much she drinks, or how hi/low her standards are)

Cuz the truth is, if I hit on 40 average looking dames a week, I too can score more frequently. But, up the ante to approaching 40 HB7+'s a week and my sucess goes down
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,515
Reaction score
62
Location
Galt's Gulch
Originally posted by shandoli
Oh come on!!
Get real with me here..
its a very good mindset to have while you are trying to get stuff done but we all know reality is different!!

just like people say"nothing is impossible"
its a good attitude to have but we all know humans cant fly!! right!!
so dont give me this philosophical bullsh!t!!

answer the damn question or shut the fuvk up!!
I did answer, and thank you for proving it true :p
 

Big Pappy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2003
Messages
700
Reaction score
1
You want the answer? Are you sure? Can you handle the truth?

How "good" you can be is determined by a combination of factors. I can think the world of myself, with a mansion and a couple of sweet rides and millions in the bank. It doesn't mean I'll be "good" with the ladies.

How "good" you can get with the ladies will vary with each specific lady. Some girls hate the game, will be brave enough to just call you when they want to talk, ask you to dinner when they want your company and rip the buttons of your shirt and your fly when they want some sex.

Others play the game out of a need to protect themselves, or maybe they just enjoy it.

All the studying and reading will not make you "better" or "good". It might help you open the door, as you may have learned some interesting coments or negative hits. But, it does not keep you there. Your own personality and charm will have to show through and it will have to be consistent.

How "good" you can be, obviously, depends on how much any given girl likes you. All you can do is focus your decisions on making you a better person and revolve your life around a piece of tail. It is quite okay to compromise and spend time with a woman you care about, but it is not okay to sacrifice responsibilities or other friends in hopes of trying to get some booty.


Hope that helps.
 

Smile

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 24, 2001
Messages
96
Reaction score
0
Basically there are no limits, i know you've said that kind of talk is philosophical bull****, but the thing is, every single day you can i prove yourself, you will never get to a point where nothing can be improved, every improvement you make in your life will make girls want you more, and so therefore the only limit is the rate at which you improve yourself over your life up untill the time when your too old to get out of bed.
 
Top