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How do you fellas get over a girl?

YoungQuas

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I'm having a difficult time forgetting about this lady. I've been trying to keep busy, but it isn't really helping me. Talked to other girls, but I still think about her at times. I honestly liked her and it wasn't just a sexual thing. What do you guys do to forget?
 

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Once you find one you like, you'll move on. Not to say you won't always remember this one, but you will move on.
There's a woman out there holding the antidote to your sickness. You really will see what I mean when she suddenly appears in your life. You'll feel your chemistry changing, like shedding a skin. You just haven't met her yet, that's all.
That's what I reckon anyway.
 

BustedKnucks

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It takes TIME.

You can distract yourself with work, hobbies, the gym or new girls, but in the end it takes time.

There's no exact amount but the longer you go without talking to her the less you'll remember her until you find yourself having forgotten her almost completely.
 

YoungQuas

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You're absolutely right. I just wish the process would go much quicker
 

Darth

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I am in this spot right now and it so, so sucks.
 

bigneil

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Time heals all wounds.

It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

This sucks.
 

Alle_Gory

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YoungQuas said:
I just wish the process would go much quicker
Meditation. It is the act of mental discipline. It will help you get over her quicker and aid you in other ways in your life.

The more discipline and control you have over yourself, the more powerful and effective you are as a person. Self-control is liberating. It allows you to do what you want, when you want without distractions getting in your way.
 

GameTime76

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It takes time and time is on your side. Just focus on yourself. Lift weights, go to work, read books, hang with your friends, play sports or whatever. There are Ex's that I'm completely over with but, sometimes I still have memories of them. Its natural so dont worry about it. When, the time is right you'll be chasing & fvcking new girls.
 
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