runningonice
Don Juan
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I realize that I have to change my strategy of looking for a one time hookup on dating sites. Women get those kind of offers all the time and reject most if not all of them. It's time to go in person.
My problem is, I'm really afraid of attachment and getting in deep with a girl. It's like a bi-polar rollercoaster ride, and at this point in my life, I like my life how it is and don't need any of that. But at the same time, I realize it will take building comfort and trust, even if just for a week or two, of getting to know a woman before she wants to have sex. I'm trying to be genuine, be a good conversationalist, while at the same time looking out for myself and not getting TOO close.
I'm quite confident in my ability to get a number or meet a woman. It's not easy, but you just look for who's biting and put yourself in a situation where multiple women may possibly bite. What I'm not confident in is getting it from the first meet/date/hangout/whatever to sex, without going the LTR route. And I'd appreciate any tips I could get, keeping in mind that I'm trying to be genuine (not brutally honest to the woman, or "nice" but just real.)
My problem is, I'm really afraid of attachment and getting in deep with a girl. It's like a bi-polar rollercoaster ride, and at this point in my life, I like my life how it is and don't need any of that. But at the same time, I realize it will take building comfort and trust, even if just for a week or two, of getting to know a woman before she wants to have sex. I'm trying to be genuine, be a good conversationalist, while at the same time looking out for myself and not getting TOO close.
I'm quite confident in my ability to get a number or meet a woman. It's not easy, but you just look for who's biting and put yourself in a situation where multiple women may possibly bite. What I'm not confident in is getting it from the first meet/date/hangout/whatever to sex, without going the LTR route. And I'd appreciate any tips I could get, keeping in mind that I'm trying to be genuine (not brutally honest to the woman, or "nice" but just real.)