JaegerPilot217 said:
. I wasn't that popular, I wanted to get my grades right and i wasn't playing a lot basketball wise so no one knew who i was. I didn't have a car, etc. 
Lmao. I know exactly what you're talking about. It happened to me too except it was in college. This girl would do anything to be around me. She would even do my homework for me. She was overly flirtatious and everything. I'm just average looking but I knew for sure she was punching below her weight. She eventually transferred schools to Texas and sometimes I kick myself for not taking action.backbreaker said:I remember when I was in HS, I never had a huge problem dating chicks, I kept cute girlfriends. But in the 10thg rade, when i got to high school, i didn't have a GF all year long. Sad Backbreaker
However, for whatever the freaking reason may be, the hottest 12th grade black girl in school had this thing for me. This girl was on a level that I had not yet been with. she was really half black half native american, long jet black hair, high yellow, curves, just BAD. At first I thought it was a joke. I gave her my number and i thought i twas a joke and she called me and she actually wanted to talk! I was like damn. Then we'd met up at the mall and kick it and stuff and go to basketball games. She would come watch me play even though I wasn't palying lol. then we kissed. then she invited herself over my house. then one day she asked me when are you going to ask me to date you.
I really wanted to say, like seriously.. WTF do you want with me lol? To this day i have no earthly idea what she saw in me at the time. I wasn't bad looking but every dude in the school wanted this chick and she wanted me.
The only thing I reason is that beucase she was so out of my league, I never really pressed around her because i knew i had no shot and she liked my personality.
Eventually we dated and i started going all AFC and 3 weeks later my reality came crashing back down. but she was so out of my league i felt like i was playing with house money anyway lol
my point being.. to this day I dont know what she saw in me. a lot of times it's not one thing. we spend so much time trying to figure it out. sometimes you really can't.
I have known girls who I don't think would use that logic and leave people alone that they aren't attracted to, I could be wrong. They would probably use more insensitive wording than you did. What they can (through my experience of it) do is psychologically or emotionally attack the guy with her group of girls. I was in such a state about feeling unattractive to the point of self-abuse and counseller-seeking, and all I got in return was this condescending spiel by girls, pretending to be on the same wavelength as the 'ugly' ppl, saying how they can relate whilst at the same time digging into them further, making pre-assumptions about me being *alone* and how I should be 'what I truly am', even though I knew that would result in exclusion and ridicule by strangers, thanks to today's society. I never believed that a mother can have the same mindset or actions as the young things out there who do this to guys.skinnyguy said:
so the way to sum it up in a nutshell is these guys look like trolls and they have hot, cute girlfriends?Robert28 said:
Let's put it this way, think of a guy like Channing Tatum. Could probably have any girl he d@mn well wanted at the snap of a finger. Instead of dating his equal or above in looks, he settles for dating Melissa McCarthy without the funny personality. And you can't wrestle her away from him if you tried your hardest to get him to leave her and do better.JaegerPilot217 said:
