thekhris said:
Ok guys this about closing the deal.Well lets say the both of you are obviously wanted to be in a relationship both of you are super obviously attracted to each other.Now how would you close the deal?
First, you don't tell a girl how you feel. You reciprocate when she tells you her feelings, but even then it seems best to downplay even then. If you like a girl you SHOW her how you feel... by flirting with her, kinoing her, clawing her, kissing her, etc.
You sound pretty young, why are you so eager to jump in a relationship? Is she good in the sack? IS she prego? are her parents rich?
The way to start a relationship is to keep hanging out with a girl, and continue sleeping with her, then eventually the girl will let it be known that she wants to be with you exclusively.
MAny dons or should i say all of the dons are saying the only way to close the deal
1if she gonne be the one who is gonna confess first
2. you accindentally kiss her
no i dont get it??
This doesn't even make sense!! A relationship doesn't start at a first kiss... or first anything for that matter.
1 - Yes the girl should confess her feelings first, but this isn't usually in the first week or two of meeting her either, for anything more than 'I like you' (which means ONLY that you are in her GOOD book)
2 - You don't accidentally kiss a girl, you make it seem as tho 'it just happened' (that's what the girl should be able to say to her friends)
Thing is, the 1 and 2 have no relevance to each other... I mean this is like comparing an apple to a bicycle...
no i dont get it??
you mean all of the masters and puas this is what they did on the very first day that the relationship starts?
what if the girl is too shy to confess her feelings?
and what if you wont be having accidental scenario that you would kiss her?
how would you close the deal?
You're right, you don't get it. Getting a girl in bed can happen in 10min or less from meeting, a relationship doesn't start usually even in the first weeks of meeting a girl (not that it doesn't happen, but there's usually a delay between meeting a girl and turning her to a gf)
If you have a girl feeling completely in love with you, she will let you know it no matter how shy she is...
There are plenty of things that will get you a kiss very quick
1 - Intro - Claw - Kiss
2 - Intro - conversation - kino - triangle gaze - kiss
3 - Eye contact - Intro - Kiss
Or thousands of other combinations, but in any of these examples a relationship is WAY further in the list. In none of these cases is a kiss accidental, the kiss is very deliberate... just in subtle ways.
You make me wonder what you even mean by closing the deal.