thedeparted
Senior Don Juan
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I am reviewing past couple weeks and want opinion on this:
I met a girl from online at a museum, then took her to another venue. Then I felt like eating but not something cheap like she suggested so I bought dinner. It was probably fancier than she is used to, she seemed impressed.
Anyway, at the end, she tells me she had a great time. I'm sure she did. She seems to want a kiss, but I'm not interested (at all) so I just shake her hand and tell her I'll be in touch.
A few days later I email but get no reply. I was hoping to LJBF her b/c she has some good contacts.
So, did she get offended I didn't kiss her? Is there any way to LJBF these women? Ideally these dates would add to my network, instead of being one-off's that go nowhere.
I guess I am asking, how do I friend-zone the women I don't find attractive, but might find useful, instead of just adding them to the pile of rejects that hate me for being too picky?
I met a girl from online at a museum, then took her to another venue. Then I felt like eating but not something cheap like she suggested so I bought dinner. It was probably fancier than she is used to, she seemed impressed.
Anyway, at the end, she tells me she had a great time. I'm sure she did. She seems to want a kiss, but I'm not interested (at all) so I just shake her hand and tell her I'll be in touch.
A few days later I email but get no reply. I was hoping to LJBF her b/c she has some good contacts.
So, did she get offended I didn't kiss her? Is there any way to LJBF these women? Ideally these dates would add to my network, instead of being one-off's that go nowhere.
I guess I am asking, how do I friend-zone the women I don't find attractive, but might find useful, instead of just adding them to the pile of rejects that hate me for being too picky?