PoZest said:Current plate I see often, her ex has been asking her to meet and have a talk. She tells me she wouldn't get back with him or anything like that, but she's mentioned him nearly every time I see her.
She'll say stuff like, "he's said he misses me", "he said he'd love to have sex again" things like that. I kind of ignore it or just laugh it off, but she has actually agreed to meet him to have a talk. And also promised me nothing would happen, even though I'm not exclusive with her or anything, so she didn't have to say that.
But what can I say or do when she brings him up in conversation? I know he really wants her back and he will ask that when she meets up.
It's a plate and you are complaining about her seeing her ex...you are doing it all wrong....i actually encourage them when they say stuff like this and i also like to talk about my exes with plates once they start talking about their ex....and you know what...they always start acting jealous and will bring it up time and time again.......you guys are not exclusive and that is just one of the great things about having plates in the first place...
So who cares if she meets him...as long as you don't care she will always gravitate back toward you....
Also, you should tell her this next time she brings him up:
ahhhh...i actually feel sorry for the guy, he must have really liked you....i guess he didn't think you were too annoying..(it's important that you give a sly looking smile when you say this) ...she will likely hit your shoulder or something and then you should say but i am serious breakups are rough on some guys, you should find a way to make him feel better.....this will make you look so big in her eyes...and at the same time it will indirectly make him look small.....
You can't be scared of losing her....don't be scared of losing anyone ever...ESPECIALLY a plate....let her fly away......if she doesn't come back, it's just a plate...but the whole thing sounds like a pathetic attempt to make you jealous to me while stroking her ego at the same time...