RSanders219
Don Juan
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Yeah so like the thread title says.. I fvcked up. Right when I think I have grown out of these AFC tendencies, I say something stupid while I'm wasted to a girl i've been talking to via text.
So she blew me off tonight. She had a legit reason, so it wasn't that big a deal. We've hooked up a few times and she was really into me. I was pretty tired anyways so I felt like tonight wasn't the best night to chill. But then I drank a few drinks with my friends and texted her some STUPID SH!T.
Me: So you still wanna hang friday?
Her: maybe, I'll let you know tomorrow
Me: ok whatever
Her: is something wrong?
Me: No is something wrong with you?
Her: No you're acting like a jerk though
Then I just start to go on a rant saying if she's leading me on to back off (Like a fvcking AFC) and continue to say if I'm just another one of those guys to forget about it
She goes on to say she's sorry if I feel like that and that she thought I was way more chill and laid back blah blah.. Has to sort things out in her life.
I called her about a half hour later no answer.. so i left a voicemail and I said "Hey listen ___.. I don't know why I said those things, I don't ever act like this and just had a bit too much to drink. If you wanna talk about it give me a call when you get this.
I really royally fvcked up here! Things were going completely fine til I got drunk and screwed this up! She even texted me a few times saying I'm "super cute" and stuff like that.
So I'm wondering, is there any way in hell I can resolve this situation? If so I will make sure it happens.
This isn't so much a situation where I am super attached to this girl, it's more of a situation where I can't let myself be screwed over just because I was drunk and retarded.
So she blew me off tonight. She had a legit reason, so it wasn't that big a deal. We've hooked up a few times and she was really into me. I was pretty tired anyways so I felt like tonight wasn't the best night to chill. But then I drank a few drinks with my friends and texted her some STUPID SH!T.
Me: So you still wanna hang friday?
Her: maybe, I'll let you know tomorrow
Me: ok whatever
Her: is something wrong?
Me: No is something wrong with you?
Her: No you're acting like a jerk though
Then I just start to go on a rant saying if she's leading me on to back off (Like a fvcking AFC) and continue to say if I'm just another one of those guys to forget about it
She goes on to say she's sorry if I feel like that and that she thought I was way more chill and laid back blah blah.. Has to sort things out in her life.
I called her about a half hour later no answer.. so i left a voicemail and I said "Hey listen ___.. I don't know why I said those things, I don't ever act like this and just had a bit too much to drink. If you wanna talk about it give me a call when you get this.
I really royally fvcked up here! Things were going completely fine til I got drunk and screwed this up! She even texted me a few times saying I'm "super cute" and stuff like that.
So I'm wondering, is there any way in hell I can resolve this situation? If so I will make sure it happens.
This isn't so much a situation where I am super attached to this girl, it's more of a situation where I can't let myself be screwed over just because I was drunk and retarded.